Yeah....that was my point Franklawyer...he was putting pressure on me, after 3 dates that he wanted a mother for his child, more than just wanting to maybe keep seeing each other and see what would happen

I did tell him that I enjoyed seeing him, but that I really was not looking for anything immediately that type of serious, if ever. And, in fact, I had raised my child and was not planning on another family in that way at this point in my life. Basically after that, he appeared to lose interest pretty quick.

Wink, Wink, flirt, flirt Southern! Frank I think, just maybe you get HER story backwards. It was he date sizing her up for Mommy duty, not her judging him. She agrees with you too much too fast! Right, Nicksmom? Or am I just blonde and got it all twisted?

Violent agreement going on

Yes Happy, that's right. Sorry for the confusion.

He was a widower, he was looking for a replacement mom for his daughter.

I was not interested in the job.

Thanks...

I know of what you speak Heave. Most American chicks are just psychotic. I have heard nothing but good things about mail order brides, though. They are traditional and do all of the wifely duties without complaint. Cooking and cleaning; taking care of the kids and staying out of trouble. Of course, they can be infected with American attitudes once they live here long enough. That is why one needs to be setup a tv channel lock so that they can never watch Oprah.

Yes, my friend its tuff, keep your head up there will be smooth sailing ahead.

LOL Edward...oh if I only had the luxury of time to be psychotic:)

too busy working 12 hours a day to support myself and get ahead to even watch Oprah...sigh...

I know, Happy. I was more talking about the guy's expectations placed on nicksmom, and not the other way around. I agree with her. It was too much to dump on someone so soon.

I know that single parents need to walk a fine line. They don't want to waste any precious time or emotional energy getting involved with anyone who doesn't really want to be seriously involved with someone who has kids. But at the same time, the guy needs to realize that he all but asked nicksmom to be his kid's mom, and that's a little too much on the third date.

There obviously needs to be a discussion about that kind of thing when two adults are dating, but I don't think it should take place until much later in the relationship (such that it is).

Oh Edward, really Sweetie, I know your Mom had to raise you with more respect for women than that. Don't let someone or ones made you classify all American woman in that way. Most of us aren't asking anyone for anything yet remaining, soft and loving and respectful of others and "cute as buttons" to boot! Do you want a slave or a partner?

With all these weird and scary stories of the dating scene I AM SO GLAD I am not dating. And yall think I am the weird one to say that I never want to date again. lmao

I agree Frank! We are all on the same page with that! It is sad that some people still try to attaah themselves to each new person that comes along and make them their own! That kind of stuff has to happen over time! Or Not! Except for me and Southern. I think he would make the perfect Baby Daddy! Sight unseen !LOL

lol@happy that will freak em out lol

Maybe you should take your time and wait for the right person or opportunity. I dunno..maybe that is a bad idea. *shrug*

By, he knows I am just playing (unless he is down wit it!! LOL)

On a slightly less controversial note...Christye07 i love your avatar! too cute :)