Hi all. My first post here and i am new to support groups but i need to talk to someone before i lose my mind. Six months ago i caught my husband of 15 years in an online affair. It was pretty bad. He was chatting with her on the phone while i was sleeping right next to him. Because we have two girls, 5 and 12, i stayed. I really did not want to destroy their world. But i find there is no repairing the damage. I cant seem to forgive him and it is toxic for the both of us. He wants split custody of the girls. I know it is for the best but i can not bear the thought of not seeing my girls for half their lives. I cant stay with him but the alternative is to lose the two people i care most about in life. How do you cope with this????
Didn't cook much today just made a baked potato and had some canned chicken noodle soup.
lots of things happening in my life. Not to me but to those around me. Nana and Papa are both not doing well. Nana cannot even stand in her own. Papa keeps falling. My pup now has to wear diapers because she is having accidents in the house. So share something good with me to help me see that life isn’t all that bad. My something good is this: Thanksgiving is next week and my mood is stable!...