Hi all. My first post here and i am new to support groups but i need to talk to someone before i lose my mind. Six months ago i caught my husband of 15 years in an online affair. It was pretty bad. He was chatting with her on the phone while i was sleeping right next to him. Because we have two girls, 5 and 12, i stayed. I really did not want to destroy their world. But i find there is no repairing the damage. I cant seem to forgive him and it is toxic for the both of us. He wants split custody of the girls. I know it is for the best but i can not bear the thought of not seeing my girls for half their lives. I cant stay with him but the alternative is to lose the two people i care most about in life. How do you cope with this????
I’m going to be attending some educational lectures on mental illness for my job soon - I’m dreading it because I hate how MH problems get presented to the public; they are presented very negatively. Not everyone with a diagnosis has all of the characteristic and many are high functioning. I just feel like I am crawling out of my skin when I hear someone try to “teach me” what...
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