Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 09/15/2009

Do you believe that it is acceptable to self-medicate, during the grieving process, with whatever indulgence makes you feel better? I tend to chew Bubblicious gum...

Rman 09/15/2009

When I go to Macy's, women in the fragrance section always want to spray shit at you. I bring my own perfume to the store and spray their asses...

deleted_user 09/15/2009

lol soaked

hey, i like a guy who wears cologne.. but my last 2 exes never would.

i always try to smell good.. but if your allergic to purfume Rman then you shouldn't come to boston, or i may make you sneeze!

deleted_user 09/15/2009

you do not!! I hate those perfume chicks.....I tell them NO. When they say "are you sure"? I say I already picked my own perfume today. It's a big day for me.

deleted_user 09/15/2009

I prefer less cologne. Cologne reminds me of Stbx....bleck. it has to be really good cologne or it's just yucky. his were expensive and i hated them all. picky picky. Just shower with soap. lol. my favorite-smelling boyfriend smelled like laundry detergent...or maybe it was a dryer sheet... but it was a good smell.

deleted_user 09/15/2009

I like a guy with a bit of cologne or the "clean" soap smell too. There's nothing hotter than a man just out of the shower with a white towel loosely wrapped around his waist....

Remember those beer commercials, "Here's to you Mr. Too Much Cologne wearer."

Rman 09/15/2009

I use Suave shampoo, Dial soap, Edge shaving gel and sure powder fresh deodorant. That makes me smell fresh...funky fresh...

deleted_user 09/15/2009

omg lol

i agree..soap and light cologne. very nice

deleted_user 09/15/2009

i love how you took 'clean smell' to the next level! now he's wrapped in a towel...! Go soaked!

I hearby dedicate that commercial to my Stbx, who wears even more cologne now that we're apart...you can smell him a mile away.

deleted_user 09/15/2009

Oh yeah, I am definitely self-medicating --- 1 apple cider a night after kids go to bed, sometimes 2 on a weekend. Calling a friend, and unfortunately the occasional cigarette in the evening (ack! I quit YEARS ago!!) It may be not good, but sometimes I can only take so much of the anxiety, burning chest, pit in stomach, shaky feeling before I feel like I will lose my mind.

deleted_user 09/15/2009

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ik6QzSgrqZ4

deleted_user 09/15/2009

Oh yes... I'm in a mood where anything can be made sexual.

deleted_user 09/15/2009

"everywhere a splish splash" ? lol

omg you people are so funny

Rman 09/15/2009

lol...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPVbgMn3WN8

Rman 09/15/2009

i like the lyrics...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mPpS7QWAK3Y

deleted_user 09/15/2009

Did they say spank?