Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I caught up with some people I used to know last night. Before I met my wife, I was involved with some bad people. I'm not like that anymore, but when I found out the shit she did to our account, I kind of veered toward my past. The place I work at night has some very shady characters and like an idiot, I ended up talking with them last night. By bad people, I mean drugs, gambling and guns. Not good. Anyway, the conversation last night went toward me and how I have become a "pussy-family man." They made a dare with me and I accepted. This was very immature of me. This is also not a joke, as it has happened before. The truth is, these people will probably be too fucked up and high on Friday to even remember.
I'll be ok. I might have just snapped a little yesterday.
Thanks for the support and I'm sorry to have brought this on the boards. I'm not used to people giving a shit, so I don't know how to handle it now.
Thanks again.
GOOD thing you are here! *cancels flight to Bmore*
Glad to know you've come to your senses since writing this post. My only suggestion would be to avoid those "friends" if you can. You have enough going on in your life without having deal with negative influences.
....btw friends should want to build you up and not tear you down or watch you destroy yourself.
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Rman--seriously.....I get your need to feel alive again.........think of what you want for your kids and follow that (I know you wouldn't want them talking to any of the people you described)......I'm glad you posted it..........where are you today?