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HeaveToo 02/05/2009

This discussion just came up today between myself and my father. It concerns people who are high maintenance. Some people require much more maintenance than others. This isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Do you think that you are high maintenance?

What would you consider to be high maintenance?

Would you rather be with someone who was low maintenance or high maintenance?

deleted_user 02/05/2009

High maintenance, low maintenance, I don't care, as long as you call me the maintenance man!

veeachjay 02/05/2009

I would say I used to be very low maintenence in both ways. I've never wanted for material things and I was very secure within myself. Now I've become a person I no longer recognize. I hate being needy and pathetic....I just hate it!

deleted_user 02/05/2009

Great song lol mamalyn!

I just found mine!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Nhpc8ZXW38

deleted_user 02/05/2009

LMAO 4BooBoo...

My response can be found in Reply #3 as well.

deleted_user 02/05/2009

Balance and rotate all tires?

I'm very low maint, IMO.

In fact, I only require 3 of the 4 golden man rules. I don't mind talking. =P

deleted_user 02/05/2009

OMG! Wrong song, sorry!

Here is the right one.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X49lq-93oxk&feature=related

deleted_user 02/05/2009

Low maintenance

deleted_user 02/05/2009

I require about as much maintenance as a brick.

deleted_user 02/05/2009

I am far from being high maintenance. In fact I was always waiting on STBX, not the other way around. @@..

--Sara

deleted_user 02/05/2009

I guess I would be considered high maintenance now since I've raised my standards a little (Okay....A LOT!) since being with Fucktard! ;-p
(I just realized how very looooooooooooow maintenance I really was! Thanks A LOT for this post Heave! lol. *belch*)

deleted_user 02/05/2009

This is funny. Stbx and I were having this conversation. I am probably the lowest maintenance female he knows. He is probably the highest maintenace male I know. Go figure.

deleted_user 02/05/2009

Oh, ok. I get it now.

I'm low maintenance especially when it comes to drama.

deleted_user 02/05/2009

I think I am about as low maintenance as one can get without being dead. I am pretty simple really yet at the same time, unbelievably complicated.

deleted_user 02/05/2009

I think I'm low maintenance and I'd prefer a low maintenance kind of guy as well. It is the small things in life that matter.I love to be hugged and kissed and haven't had either in a really long time...Sigh..... I too hate feeling this needy and pathetic

deleted_user 02/05/2009

high maintenance People wear other people out, there for needing to exchange people for fresh people....

and on it goes

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