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Obsessing

Rman
Rman
Why is it that we often obsess about the things in our lives? I mean, what good does it do to keep thinking about the same thing over and over? I know nothing will change, yet I will still think about something until it drives me nuts. Then, I'll think about it again...
Melin2
Melin2
Thank you for saying it Patti! Someone needed to!

Right now I'm obsessing over where the heck my straight iron is! I have 2 of them and can't find either of them.
Rman
Rman
Melin, you know you love my avi...
Melin2
Melin2
I know it! But I have considered bribing you with "favors" to change it. How many tacos would it take?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't quit until I get up to your area Rman, we will smoke like fiends and experiment with Crabcos. I will buy a bushel on the way down.
Rman
Rman
It depends on the taco.
deleted_user
deleted_user
OOOOOOOOOOH Rman.

Melin has "G" favors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Melin2
Melin2
Hush TD, you know too much!
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL!

I know nothing more than what was posted publicly.
pemdcat
pemdcat
.......grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
deleted_user
deleted_user
PEM!!!

Jesus thread was two down.

Thanks for coming though!
Rman
Rman
Isn't that what they say in AA? Good advice.

"grant me the serenity to accept that I don't have a taco right now. the courage to get one after work. and the wisdom to know the difference between a real taco and a taco bell taco..."

Seriously though, Pem...that is very good advice.
pemdcat
pemdcat
just trying to help....the first 2 lines help stop obsessing.....the next one to help fix the problem...and the last the wisdom to obtain the best possible taco..... if yo are going to obsess about something let it be something meaningful like a taco.......
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well you have me there.

grant me the serenity,
to accept the "G's" I cannot change;
courage to feel them when I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Rman
Rman
What's a G?
deleted_user
deleted_user
*put arm around rman's shoulder*

Walk with me son...

When a woman grows breasts they come in all different shapes and sizes. "G" is one of those sizes. It's amazing. The woman has to feed and water her breasts for years to achieve such a wonder. Yanno what else you can do with "G"'s Rman? Well you know what WE like to do with them. THEY can do that too.

*pats rman on the head*

You go have fun now son!