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My first 24 hrs on this board

Rman
Rman
Well, after my first 24 hrs on this board, I can honestly say that I still feel like crap. But, at least I have people to talk to about these feelings. It's nice to see that the people here have either gone through, or are going through the same emotions as me. I think I might stick around for a while. Nice to meet all of you.
Rman
Rman
I think I may have to change my screen name and avatar thingy...? It's pretty negative...
Rman
Rman
she said the "f" word...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Others have started with one name and then changed it to something more positive. As you heal you will find what seems right. Dammit Loml. LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm glad you are thinking a little more clearer today. Tomorrow, you will have your lows and we will be here. You change your whenever you are ready.

I have tried to change mine twice and the DS GURUS are FOCKING with me and ignoring my pleas whereas others have been changed within a day or two! WAH!

OH WAIT...it's not about me....carry on....MARCH MARCH MARCH.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
You better not change your name Z. =D

O.o
Rman
Rman
Just add twenty numbers at the end of your screen name. That should work. I can think clear. Thinking clear is the problem right now, though...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why am I always in trouble. I blame Dustin for my evil ways =D
Rman
Rman
Why are you in trouble sweetloml? Who is Dustin? Just asking because I have no idea about anyone on this board, yet...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't you worry about it. *Beem smile*

I am sure after a while you will know. I'm a cornball just to let you know.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It does help to not be alone and to talk to people who understand. I wish I had found this forum earlier in the process! Take care and hang in there.
Rman
Rman
The fact that this board exists, shows how common these emotions actually are...

Why does this situation cause so much emotion?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree stay on DS for support. I was on it for the first 6 month and never posted or replied. I wish I would have posted something before instead of lurking. I've even rejected friend invites with a few great people I am close to now. Funny now that I look back how scared I was to talk. There is many great people here that can really help you when you need it.

((((hugs)) and night all.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Because you loved someone and they could not love you the way you wanted to be loved. Rejection hurts and someone your love walks away or stops caring always hurts. It will get better with time. One day at a time sweetie.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Because this is all so recent, it's going to feel crappy no matter where you are. Atleast here you have friends who are willing to listen to you, and help you through the crappy times.

Tony
Roadrunner99
Roadrunner99
Welcome to the world of our pain. We all have it to some degree or another.

I wish you well on your journey through this. Perhaps you will find a special wingman here. This place is good for the soul with some very, very rare exceptions.

I hope it helps you as much as it is helping me.

Best Wishes, RR99