Yes! I will marry again if, and only if, I find the right person. And I'm really particular now and I will definitely take my sweet old time.

It would take a very special man to get me to walk down the aisle again. At the present time, I really have no desire to marry again.

I've never been married but all I do know is that I have a lot of love to give and would really like to give it to the right person.

I have been in love twice, once with a person who did not love me the same way, the other with someone where we were both crazy about each other but seemed to argue a lot.

Somewhere along the lines someone might just love me like I love them, with no arguments and with life being simple. That's what I hope for and hopefully in 2012 it will happen.

Not only would I, but I did. I was very hurt by my ex and never thought I'd love again. However, I enjoy sharing my life with someone else. I enjoy having someone to share my hopes and dreams with. Someone to be intimate with ... emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically. Someone I can call my wife. I found that.

I will not allow fear of being hurt again dictate how I live my life. Fear is a horrible task master. I am in charge of my own destiny ... not fear. I did not go out and find the right person to marry ... I BECAME the right person to marry. I work on myself continuously to be a better person. I am FAR from perfect and have a lot to do to be the type of person that I want to be. Sharing my life with someone else is my choice and is how I want to live my life.

Yes! I am not going to allow my ex, or our marriage to ruin my dreams of sharing my life. My parents have been together for over 50 yrs, not Hollywood Style (saved for the deathbed, selfish and dramatic), but what I consider real love and commitment. Give and take. I want my parent have, and thought I had it when I married my ex.

My kids are young, and I would love to find someone who values family like I do, who wants to co-parent my kids, the way I want to co-parent their kids. Share those playful memories with a smile. Not scared to take a risk in making new memories, traveling well into old age, meet new people, try new activities, as long as we're both physically healthy!

I believe I can find that, as I've seen others my age (divorced, with more kids) do the same! I believe there are many wonderful people, who did not want to be divorced (like me) who want similar things, share similar goals as me!

Oh, and I am not damaged, I am more experienced!

Actually I couldn't have married 2 better men in my life..My first marriage was for 20 years..Yes I would have married the same man all over again..Unfortunatly we didn't know how to fix the problem we had. Today I would have known how to fix the problem had I just hung in there longer...But I didn't..
Today I am married to another wonderful man. We work at it hard to not repeat the same mistakes we made in our previous mariages..

nice to know that the responses here are pretty much equal in the yes/no category.....happy to know there is hope after heartbreak.

I would get re-married again and I'm pretty sure I will.
I just need to raise my children first so they would never be subjected to another clusterfuck. :)

Married a cat? hmmm wonder if that guy in India has a brother?

Yes, I plan on doing it all over again. I refuse to let my past define me or allow me to succumb to bitterness and anger. My marriage was horrific..a nightmare and very very painful but there were many lessons learned through all of the pain. For that, I am forever grateful. I have been blessed with a terrific man in my life now. Im just keeping my eye on the prize.

this experience has made me change my view of marriage 360,
from the ideal institution of society and religion
to just a mare contract between 2 people for the sake of the children
it has nothing to do with love, commitment nor will it predict the outcome of the relationship.
since my children are now 16 and older and my "role" in society as a mother is completed, i won't ever "commit" to marriage again.....

I waited until I was 39 to marry and thought he was the one for life now at 41 I am seperated.

My answer is hell no!!!!!!! but than again who knows what the future will hold ,just because one man destroyed my hopes and dreams doesnt mean another would or will.

I;m not closed down to the idea, but I also think living together and not marrying is a viable option for me. I enjoy having what's mine, and the break up would be less messy.

Still early days. Not to the same guy as I can't forgive him, but I am an eternal romantic and optimistic and would like to think there is a guy out there with whom I will fall in love again and want to spend the rest of my life. I don't think marriage is a must though. Commitment is.