Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 05/13/2011

I just realized that the woman I married truly hates me. Although we checked out on the marriage some time ago, I just don't understand how someone can come to hate the person that they once loved.

deleted_user 05/14/2011

Thought you were staying together for your kids? Thinking that they are hostages now in a very unhealthy environment.

Staying now because of money? Lots of people have had to go through divorce and have been screwed financially. Suck it up, kick her to the curb and start dealing with the reality of your situation. Sorry if this is harsh..........

JMO......JS

Bob68 05/14/2011

I was at a school function last night with my STBX sitting across the gym. All I felt was revulsion at the sight of her. It was like looking at a hooker on the corner. I can't believe this is the same woman I married and had kids with. There's not a trace if morality left in her at all.

deleted_user 05/14/2011

I loved and hated at the same time, it felt very turbulent inside here (solar plexus).

They are very similar, intense attachments.

patti22 05/14/2011

Do you ever see moments of Love? Do the two of you ever together look at your sleeping children? (Even when things were at their worst between my ex and I, we shared our love for our children.)

deleted_user 05/14/2011

Ditto what stronggal said in #46.

deleted_user 05/14/2011

Hey, check me --> I got #50! I haven't seen a thread go that big in a long time, congrats Rman!

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