Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Well my husband moved out 2 days ago and ask for a divorce. We are going to spent Thanksgiving together for the kids not for us (those were his words). Somedays are better than others, I woke up this morning in a neutral mood but through the day my mood just went to sad and hurt. He says he is not happy, it's him not me (real cliche). He still calls and talks to me which makes me so confused, he wants a divorce but wants to be friends, he don't hug me or nothing but last night he went to see the kids and before he left he gave me a hug. I just don't know what to do anymore. I want to start the healing process but at the same time I can't let go.
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I don't really know how to label this but I having a rough week and I can't say it's one thing.... I have a lot on my plate which is nothing new and I try to cope in many positive ways and do but I still have my moments.My kids more so my daughters talk to me about everything which I know it's cause of comfort and we are close.... however I really struggle with the venting about their dad which...
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I did the dumbest thing today. I charged my earbuds, unplugged the block and put the block in my little bag instead of the earbuds. I wasn't happy about that when I got to the gym. What a dummy!
Lynne
You will be part of each other's lives for all the kids' lifetime moments.
The hardest part is healing and building the new foundation for your self.
What you are letting go of, write down in a private journal-and do NOT let anyone see this. Put all your anger, sadness, confusion, and grief in this. Put it away and then reread it before you tear it up. That will help you find out what works for you at this sensitive time of the holiday season.
Your husband is testing the waters with you, wanting the special time with the kids, and being a part of the day.
Hang in there!