Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My ex just sent me a copy of the final decree today in the mail. Apparently the divorce is officially final. Ugh.
I don't know how to feel right now. I knew that this was coming and I know that I am better off. Still, part of me is incredibly sad once I saw the final decree. I don't know why.
I know that there are things in life that we want but we can't have. We usually aren't given these things because we are better off without them. I know that my marriage was one of these things and it was poisoning my life. Why, then, does it sadden me to know that it is totally over?
The good memories I have of my marriage (the first few years) are rough to think about today because we shared so much. At one time we were both happy with each other. Where did that go and how did it get lost?
The fact that I am now a statistic doesn't sit well with me either. I never wanted this to happen and when we got married we agreed that this would never happen. I wasn't that bad of a guy, why does she want me out of her life? All she can tell me is that we are different people.
Oddly, I have no ill feelings towards her. I can still be friendly with her but I know that it would be incredibly hard to see her in person. I am glad to be out of that area and not run the chance of seeing her again or seeing her with someone else (that would be much worse).
Who knows what is really going on but the sad part of it is that I should be happy that it is over. I should be happy that I have a new chance to find happiness, but I am not. Today I am sad.
I don't know how to feel right now. I knew that this was coming and I know that I am better off. Still, part of me is incredibly sad once I saw the final decree. I don't know why.
I know that there are things in life that we want but we can't have. We usually aren't given these things because we are better off without them. I know that my marriage was one of these things and it was poisoning my life. Why, then, does it sadden me to know that it is totally over?
The good memories I have of my marriage (the first few years) are rough to think about today because we shared so much. At one time we were both happy with each other. Where did that go and how did it get lost?
The fact that I am now a statistic doesn't sit well with me either. I never wanted this to happen and when we got married we agreed that this would never happen. I wasn't that bad of a guy, why does she want me out of her life? All she can tell me is that we are different people.
Oddly, I have no ill feelings towards her. I can still be friendly with her but I know that it would be incredibly hard to see her in person. I am glad to be out of that area and not run the chance of seeing her again or seeing her with someone else (that would be much worse).
Who knows what is really going on but the sad part of it is that I should be happy that it is over. I should be happy that I have a new chance to find happiness, but I am not. Today I am sad.
But it really made me feel better. But pick yourself up..and then focus on the positives.
Today you are starting a new chapter in your life.
(((HUGSSSS)))
I hope you get to feeling better soon now this part has past. It only goes up from here!
man *bear hug*
((((hugs to you))))
((HUGS))