Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Then this will not be good...
karma, or tacos?
Lynne
Be careful to appear neutral, not an outright attack.
If she is shocked by the question, eyes opening wide and THEN gets angry or whatever, then I wouldn't worry too much.
BUT, if she skips that step and goes directly to angry defensiveness that almost seems rehearsed, then worry.
That is what my STBX did. It was planned out, she had rehearsed it in her mind, and I could tell.
I didn't put it together till later though.
I hope things work out for you Rman. You have enough going on right now. You don't need this also.
We are all here for you.
I hope, in this case, that you are wrong, however. I wouldn't wish infidelity on anyone (although, i think I did wish it on my ex-wife).
I had this converation with my friend this AM about the stbx's boyfriend whether he was in the picture before hand. I don't think so....BUT who knows and at this point who cares. Just my thoughts...
I did have my wife cheat on me. I caught her at it. She's still doing it. It's devestating. I feel for you if this is what's going on. You know the drill. Vent here when you have to you have support if you need/want it. I'm sorry and if you need to you can pm me or what ever if you need to talk.
Hugs, even tough guys need help sometimes.
John
Thanks all...