Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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CMondo 03/13/2009

Does anyone out there still does it? I haven't been on the dance floor for more than 2 decades...Anyone else shares the feeling?

deleted_user 03/13/2009

Wow Dale you just made me cry. I remember so clearly a friend of my stbx and mine one time said that I love that when you see each other across the room you just light up. Also his parents would tell us, I love how you so affectionate with each other. Damn, damn, damn

deleted_user 03/13/2009

Don't feel bad Lyn, he made me cry too.

hurtinandhealin2560 03/13/2009

I miss dancing. . .and holding hands, hugging, cuddling, kissing, touching. . .

*sigh*

deleted_user 03/13/2009

Me too hurtin.....sigh....

CMondo 03/13/2009

I get this feeling once in a while that I so wish would come back - the teenage years, when your heart beats faster, you feel pulsing, your face blushes, only because that person just walked in the room when you thought you wouldn't see him that night. That "Romeo and Juliet" first time meeting at the party...

deleted_user 03/13/2009

I never had that. I was with my ex from the age of 14. I didn't get all those experiences.....

Feels like I missed out on a lot.

deleted_user 03/13/2009

Stbx would drop everything and slow dance with me if he ever heard "When A Man Loves a Woman
'-the original, not that Michael Bolton crap. I mean, in the grocery store, at the mall, on the beach. *sigh* I guess he never actually listened to the words. Gotta go...got something in my eye...well, ok, both eyes.

CMondo 03/13/2009

Hey Gaelyn, you were such a young girl when you dated your ex...I wish and hope you find in your heart the strength to lift your chin, get your nicest dress out, get together with some friends and start going out a little. Do it for me because I cannot do it - and tell me how it went, please.

deleted_user 03/13/2009

I started going out after the divorce. Went out alone mostly, I don't have any friends to go out with. I tried dating and it was a disaster. I'm trying to figure out how fine tune my mandar...because I only seem to find the losers.

Was with my ex from the age of 14, until we separated before 34th birthday and divorced after my 34th birthday.

lycesq 03/13/2009

One of the issues I had with my sbtx was dancing. I loved to dance and did from my earliest years. Loved slow dancing. He didn't like to dance. It was always a chore pursuading him. I finally gave up and danced with my friends' husbands and anyone else I could find. Haven't danced for years, though. Got to change that!

Lynne

totallychaotic247 03/13/2009

any of you males in the philly area I will slow dance with you! My stbx was not a dancer and I used to love slow dancing before I married him. Our wedding was the last time he slow danced with me and that was almost 9 years ago. :o(

CMondo 03/13/2009

Hi Prego - let us know how it was if any of the Philly gentlemen reply to you, ok? We, the day dreamers, would like to hear how it feels when you slow dance again...

deleted_user 03/13/2009

Ok, I am going to spill here a bit. I slow danced with someone about six months ago, and it was awesome. The first time I had slow danced in over 25 years:-) Mmmmmm

pemdcat 03/13/2009

time to brag I 'm leaving now for the ball room and I know I will have at least one slow dance tonight........

deleted_user 03/13/2009

Have fun, tiger. Save a dance for me , sometime;-) LOL.

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