I hope not cause I do the same

I will readily admit that I have trust issues!

I don\'t even trust myself anymore...need second opinions on everything...ugh...this really messes with every part of us...

I was thinking about my future trust issues today. I don\'t want the next person in a relationship with me to be punished for my husband\'s wrongdoings.

On the other hand, I don\'t believe I could ever put my complete trust in another person like that ever again. I was just positive that he was not lying to me when this all started.

Anyway I\'m gonna just have to deal with that bridge when I come to it. Need to cross another huge bridge first. Good luck!

I don\'t question everything, but I tend to only see the negative side of things right now

I question so many things. I am mostly feeling such a feeling of being inadequate.

I question why someone would want to be with me...after all, I just got dumped...
You don\'t want me...I\'m damaged material...

I pray I can get to a place where I will be able to...not sure if I can or should give myself that way ever again

I have trust issues too. How can I trust someone again when the love of my life vowed to be faithful to me for better or for worse and when worse came....he went and had an affair.

I say screw trusting anyone but myself and my mom. No offense to the guys here, but men fucking SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (at least the ones in my life) Thanks for making me feel as if I\'m unworthy of being loved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I totally question everything ...

What? Why? Where? Who? When? How?

alll the time...especially if it is related to him and our life together.....everything

I wont trust again. Myself or the other.

I absolutely question most things now.. but I think I question myself the most...I was recently called on the trust issue by a gentleman friend (who would like to be more than a friend) and it was so refreshing to have a direct conversation about the issue... that was so different than the way issues played out in my marriage. I know I am in no space to jump into a serious relationship with anyone- but I do believe that there are decent people out there... I know I just have more healing to do before I am ready to be with one of them... Good luck Rman!

Me too and I think it\'s normal given the circumstance that we\'re all in. After all is said and done, trust and questioning everything becomes second nature! It\'s just a way of protecting ourselves I guess.

Rman,

I don\'t think being dumped makes you damaged material.

I think it makes the person who dumped you, damaged material.