When he told me he prefers blow jobs from men (yikes)

Pretty crappy ways of finding out that the relationships were over. Wow

ThhhT

Lola, I am so sorry. That is shocking.

when he threatened not to buy more heating fuel oil for the house and then begged me for a divorce for the umpteenth time over the phone. Actually, this is terrible to say, but I knew it was over when his older brother died suddenly of a heart attack. His father had only died three months earlier. I knew in that split second that we weren't going to make it.

she kept on me about things that never bothered her before. she had found a new one without my problems and i knew as soon as it started but i never admitted to myself.

When he was screaming again at our son - I knew I couldn't live like that anymore.

Lynne

i didnt recognize myself anymore.

When she came up behind me, wrapped a vacuum cleaner cord around my neck and pulled...

Rman, I am so sorry!

Lynne

Hmmm... mine kind of all happened at once (what happens when you're snooping at texts & web history) so take your pick of the top 3 I found that day that set me on this path...

1. Found that he had been searching for a gay bar in the town he was going to take a weekend vacation to

2. Asked his boss if his boss's girlfriend had any cute friends to set him (my stbx) up with

3. Found a text from a 17 year old boy telling my stbx "Good night honey, I love you"

Ugh, reading that, what took me so long!!

When I asked him if there was another woman and he answered....YES....and then, I asked him if he wanted a divorce and he said YES and so the trail of tears began....

When it ended.

when he went limp inside me while making love...

When I told her I did not think I was catholic anymore and she said "Well you are no longer one of us!"

And MY journey of self discovery and awareness mover forward...