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Ok I freely admit it, I need help (in many ways) but this is about dating! I don't know the right way to go about things. I am finally in a healthy place where I think I am ready to move forward. I know NOT to look for love. I know NOT to force a fit or settle. I know who I am and I can't or won't change so someone has got to fit me. Please help I want to hear from men and women, pls. Here is the situation. I had a man call me about a month ago. He was given my name by a previous business associate. He called me just to get Mortgage help. We hit it off on the phone and I was able to help him. He offered to take me for a drink to "thank me". I said sure sometime. End of conversation. He called the next week, wanted to go on Tuesday. I said sure then Tues. came, I was tired so I called asked for a rain check (never thought I would really like him, never crossed my mind). We went back and forth for a month. He never gave up. I must have blown him off 4 times. We finally made it out this Wed.. Oh My, cutie, sweet, funny. I liked him! I think he liked me too. He joked about me blowing him off for so long, I said at least I am not clingy or desprate. He said no you just don't give a shi*! It went well. He asked about my weekend (I already had plans so I told him so). I did really but not sure if he bought it or thought I was still avoiding him. We had a nice little kiss at the end of our date. I said had a good time & hope we do it again. He called next day to thank me and said he was just "checking in" but did not ask for another date? Now what. I like him! Do I call him, ask him out? Do I just wait and see, if so how long? Help, I want a chance at this one, want to play it right! I can mess up a one car funneral!!
At least you got some fun out of it. WE CAN KICK HIS ASS NOW. HE SUCKS BIG TIME! Send him to hell short cut, and tell him to kiss your size 14 ass goodbye. No matter how cute he is, no one has the right to put you down. Do not allow people around you that do that that early in the game. Think about what is waiting for ya, starts just like that, apology, blah.....kiss his skinny ass goodbye and do it in style. I love dumping jerks with some style...lmao....you are special and beautiful, and I hate him too....lmao
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3caZQtXaoH4
Take your own inner wisdom and go with your own knowledge. YOU know what is best for you and YOU DESERVE BETTER! There will be someone else, don't settle for this guy just because he is there now. You did not overreact. You reacted to protect your inner being and your future.
Earlier in the thread, you were wondering about whether to call the guy or not and whether you should just ask him out. Personally, I love being asked out by women. It happens rarely, but when it does, it's always really flattering and nice.
If you feel that spark with another guy again, and he seems a little shy or slow on the uptake, just take the initiative and ask him out. Don't let one bad experience ruin your future dating prospects.
That is a hurtful thing to say to someone, and I think he does know better. You don't need someone who starts out being a jerk. Then he continues on and makes even more rude comments. He's thinking of himself, you deserve better. Lying right off the bat isn't a good sign either. Hang in there Happy. You are a nice person, dont' let HIS problem get you down.
You may have to play this phone game; games are part of the dating part.....oh; I have been out of the loop for 10 years and it still amazes me of all the games! LOL!
Is that the same as messing up a wet dream?
Ok, tell him the truth. That he should not settle for a 14 size, just like you are not settling for anyone that treats you like size 14 matters. That he can kiss your size 14 ass goodbie, because to kiss that real nice ass, takes a REAL man, and you are still waiting for that. Thank him for his attention and company, but that you could use more quality time with someone that know how to treat a woman like you deserve to be treated.
one of my best break up lines
I am not giving a blank check for anyone at this pint in my life to hurt me. I can treat myself better than that, and why would on earth I put up with someone that treats me worse than I treat myself? No, thanks.