Ok I freely admit it, I need help (in many ways) but this is about dating! I don't know the right way to go about things. I am finally in a healthy place where I think I am ready to move forward. I know NOT to look for love. I know NOT to force a fit or settle. I know who I am and I can't or won't change so someone has got to fit me. Please help I want to hear from men and women, pls. Here is the situation. I had a man call me about a month ago. He was given my name by a previous business associate. He called me just to get Mortgage help. We hit it off on the phone and I was able to help him. He offered to take me for a drink to "thank me". I said sure sometime. End of conversation. He called the next week, wanted to go on Tuesday. I said sure then Tues. came, I was tired so I called asked for a rain check (never thought I would really like him, never crossed my mind). We went back and forth for a month. He never gave up. I must have blown him off 4 times. We finally made it out this Wed.. Oh My, cutie, sweet, funny. I liked him! I think he liked me too. He joked about me blowing him off for so long, I said at least I am not clingy or desprate. He said no you just don't give a shi*! It went well. He asked about my weekend (I already had plans so I told him so). I did really but not sure if he bought it or thought I was still avoiding him. We had a nice little kiss at the end of our date. I said had a good time & hope we do it again. He called next day to thank me and said he was just "checking in" but did not ask for another date? Now what. I like him! Do I call him, ask him out? Do I just wait and see, if so how long? Help, I want a chance at this one, want to play it right! I can mess up a one car funneral!!