I feel so depressed and don't know which way to turn. Haven't been on ds in a long while. Been remarried since December after 20 yrs of being divorced. It is pretty much a nightmare. My husband can't stand anyone's kids but his own, that's the main problem. His sons are 17 and 21. My kids are 22, 17, and 7. He can't stand for my two oldest to be anywhere around. He tolerates the 7 yr old because he has no choice if I am going to be there. He allowed his two to get drunk in the house this wkend and the youngest vomited all over my clean clothes and the floor and didn't even clean it up. Because it was his kids nothing much was said at all. My
17 yr old son would have never been allowed to do that. I wouldn't have allowed it and my husband certainly wouldn't have allowed it. My son stays with my sister during the week because he didn't want to change schools and he never even comes over because of my husband and neither does my 22 yr old daughter. I can't spend time with my granddaughter because he don't want her over either (she's two). But his kids do no wrong. I can't take it anymore. Help, guys!!!! Do I just give up and get divorced before I waste any more time?