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kerryon1 04/27/2007

There, that ought to warrant a lot of responses too!

1. How long have you been?
2. What is your world record?!

I am working on almost 4 months. I was emotionally abused in my last relationship so I won't date or have sex now (for the time being anyway). I am completely fine with it too! When I feel the need, I have "BOB" and I usually partake in that a couple times a week.

My world record is 7 months sexless... I know that doesn't seem very long for a lot of people, but I was in a very long-term relationship and then dated a lot.

Now you can call me...
Sister Kerryrella ;)

deleted_user 04/27/2007

If that doesn't work. I know a couple of guys from the dive unit at Bremmerton! LOL

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Hey, Bremerton is just a ferry ride away from Seattle.

Although I am somewhat leery of guys from the Naval Shipyard. My stbx was stationed there, I know what those guys can be like.

deleted_user 04/27/2007

My dear My Darling My duck you don't want anLTR I thought you were just looking for a F....... well you know. Oh crap thats right you don't. Sorry! LOL

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Nope, not looking for an LTR, but some of the Bremerton guys would require paperwork to prove they were safe to touch without wearing hazardous protection gear!! lol

deleted_user 04/27/2007

8 months, 3 weeks, 6 days 23 hours, 51 minutes and 12 seconds, but who's counting?

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Ladies, think of the lucky men who finally do, ummm, "get" us! Think they will survive?

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Does Rosie count?
sevvvvvennnn MMMMOONNNTTHHHSSS. For the love of God man.

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Oh you think?

deleted_user 04/27/2007

I'm closer..:) LOL

deleted_user 04/27/2007

I am going on 5 months and I thought I was in bad shape. I was with my ex since I was 17 so never had to worry about that until he left. I went 9 months after he left and then got into a relationship and finally got some. I did not really miss it much before since I was an emotional wreck. Now that I am past that I am just horny all of the time and wonder if I am ever going to get into a relationship with someone I want to be with. The offers are there but I don't just want a NSA relationship. I sure hope I don't break any records out here!

deleted_user 04/28/2007

In my previous marriage I went over 10 years without sex. That was before they had pills and pumps etc. The only thing they had then was an injection directly into the penis! No way would I expect him or even as him to go through that. I know it sounds like forever, but actually it wasn't as bad as it sounds. We had 17 years of great sex, and we just accepted it. We didn't split because of sex. We just wanted different things out of life. He is still one of my best friends.

deleted_user 04/28/2007

Dang Button! Sorry bout that!

deleted_user 04/28/2007

I gotta tell you - those pills aren't all that great.

I got one stuck in my throat once and had a stiff neck for days!

deleted_user 04/28/2007

Ha Ha! You must be awake now Harley!

By the Kerryon: what is sex? I seem to have forgotten.

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