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kerryon1 04/27/2007

There, that ought to warrant a lot of responses too!

1. How long have you been?
2. What is your world record?!

I am working on almost 4 months. I was emotionally abused in my last relationship so I won't date or have sex now (for the time being anyway). I am completely fine with it too! When I feel the need, I have "BOB" and I usually partake in that a couple times a week.

My world record is 7 months sexless... I know that doesn't seem very long for a lot of people, but I was in a very long-term relationship and then dated a lot.

Now you can call me...
Sister Kerryrella ;)

deleted_user 04/27/2007

3 years, 5 months.

kerryon1 04/27/2007

Holy crap! How can you go that long?!

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Sister K: I don't miss sex when I'm not in a relationship. I do miss the company, and everything else that comes with a relationship. When I am in a LTR, I can't get enough sex. Maybe at that point I'm making up the the wasted time.

deleted_user 04/27/2007

You just turn that part of your brain off.

deleted_user 04/27/2007

I got you beat too, kid sista!

My current stretch is about 7 months, and my record is about 22 months. Not even with Bob. If I ever get the chance to make up for wasted time...woo

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Sister K...
I am working on 4 months also and there is no end in sight. At this point every second that ticks away adds to my record. Not a record I am enjoying setting by the way. At least I am not getting worn out so someday I will have enough left in the tank to make someone's day! LOL

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Indychris: That is hilarious!! What were they saying on that one thread, something about a honeymoon stitch? That, and a boob job, lipo, and... Oh no, not again!

deleted_user 04/27/2007

4 months? 7 months?? 22 months???

PLEASE!

Anyone wanna try and top 41 months?

deleted_user 04/27/2007

No thanks!

deleted_user 04/27/2007

NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

deleted_user 04/27/2007

I have the right to remain silent..anything I say can and might be used against me......

kerryon1 04/27/2007

OMG... we are talking in months here like it's a baby, LOL! That's almost FOUR YEARS! OMG! They way I am thinking right now, I am headed that way!

Sister Kerry

deleted_user 04/27/2007

I probably have the record...longest time without sex...5 YEARS...and counting.

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Gaelyn

Do you own a BOB? if not you must immediately go out and buy one!!!!

deleted_user 04/27/2007

Yes, I do have BOB. But after 5 years...I'm getting bored with BOB. I really would prefer the real thing for a change. Now that I think about it, it's probably been almost 6 years. 6 years in September I think.

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