When I first came to DS.. (4 years ago this month).... I really needed the understanding that most of the members were able to give me....

Now, well, I'm still here because of the friendships and well, to be completely honest to kill the hours.... I don't post at all anymore and respond to very few threads.... I come in for my messages and hugs, then read a few threads, respond to those that seem to need it and ignore the others for the most part.... as our Z would state.... TADA!

and the nabbing......50

I'm here to get support and give it (well, and the occasional legal info and recipe too). The friendships I've made here are definitely a bonus.

Lynne

I first came here because the ex walked out a week before the wedding for a sugar daddy. I'm way over that. I'm here now for the Veterans support group. It's kinda like an online VFW. {BYOB} I pop into B&D every now and then to see whats up and lend a hand every now and than.........

Well, I thought I was done with DS...tried to ween myself and I stayed to pay it forward until now...

NOW....I'm a newbie again dealing with a lost love. I need you guys again but....I HAVE LEARNED and will apply those lessons as well as putting my marching boots back on....

/rant on

You get what you give. If you come on here and offer nothing but bullshit, that's what you get back. If you make an effort to determine what your issues are, you may get some self-actualization and be able to grow up and address these.

Identify the issue and/or behaviours, accept the issue as YOUR issues, then you can improve yourself.

Jumping on and thinking some magical website is just going to simply fix everything by osmosis is an asinine thought pattern.

/rant OFF

I couldn't agree more, bitterjaded. This is an issue I am having right now. I get what I give. But what do I give? The only thing I can really think of is that I set the example for what NOT to do...I'm not healing, nor and I using the tools and advice that I should be using to get through this and do something with my life.

I've found support but I've also found someplace I can go where I don't feel like everyone is looking at me like the freaky divorcee or poor single mother. I live in a small town and I feel like I can't talk to anyone without it getting around.

Jakey.....I don't think his rut is all that comfortable.......familiar yes.....comfortable......nah.........

Dutch...don't do the tattoo thing with that screen name. It is likely to disappear and re-appear as another name.

I get nothing from DS, not even an STD.

not sure but I have a committee looking into it!

thats cause you like the hershey highway Dutchess

Dutch- Knuckle tats are thuggy.....just sayin.....

@ Kelly- lmao!

Dutch...is he ACTUALLY tattooed to your ass, or are you talking about just ink...