My ex left me so many times so this time when he went to his family reunion where his x-wife was and didn't answer my texts all day then two phone calls I texted him and said if you keep up the silent treatment I am packing your stuff up in your truck. He has given me the silent treatment every time we do not agree and I feel it is emotional manipulation and abuse. It is a passive aggressive way to get to a person. I learned that in cognitive therapy I attended for a year. Instead of talking about things he cuts me off physically and emotionally and he had only been back with me two weeks this time when he did it again. I have told him many times I can't live with that kind of treatment yet he continually used it on me. So I made my decision but the things he says to me like "You will never understand anyone not even yourself" hurt me and "I will never take you back" I don't want him to take me back I want him to get all his stuff out of my house and leave me alone so I can move on but I can never get him to get it all out and when weeks go by he starts saying he needs this or that and what that really means is he wants to get back in my good graces. I second guess myself because of the things he says to me like "You always over react" "maybe you have a brain tumor and it makes you like that. Like what???? Like I want him to care about my feelings? Sometimes I think how dare he and other times I think is it me?