Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Okay group
i went through a breakup that totally shut me down and messed me up. I've been working for months to put myself back together.
advice that I was given was: get rid of anything that reminds me of my Ex. Okay I did that.
but, I have a friend that put me and my ex together. And that friend still talks to me and still talks to my ex.
is it wrong for me to end that friendship with my friend????
im really trying to move on with my life. And I feel like she is and will always be a reminder of my ex. Whenever I see her, I think of my ex, because we were all friends and I know they still talk.
please group, what's your advice on this question. I hate to be mean to the friend, but I think it's in my best interest to end it.
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
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What I might do, is drastically limit my contact with this friend. Just be too busy. Don't be around. This way, you don't have to make any announcement that you are - "ending the friendship". Just stay away from her, be busy, don't answer her calls or texts... You are too busy out living your new life!! :)
I wouldn't want to wonder why someone is ignoring me...b/c I would start trying to think if I have done something.
Just tell her the truth. Perhaps also tell her that perhaps given some time, and you have gotten over the breakup you can reconnect again.
I think she would definitely understand that.
I tried to stay in touch with my exes mother...she was older and really wanted that. I tried to please her and went along with it. But every holiday hearing from her, just reminded me of my ex.
It got too much and I wrote her an email and explained my position. She totally understood. She wrote when you're ready to have me back in your life, let me know.
Sending you light and love!