Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I honestly don't even know what's going on with my fiancé all I know is I've seen so many things to make me believe he's been cheating and he has pushed me away for two months now as he stands me up or doesn't make plans. I feel so sick almost daily with my nerves being so bad I love him but he is convinced I cheated and I didn't he calls me daily leads me on but I gave the slightest clue what he wants I never even see him idk what to do
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
You say he is your fiance', so when is the wedding? Is his disappearing mean that you two aren't getting married? You need to know what is going on. This is YOUR life. Can't keep waiting around for him to decide about YOUR life. He needs to tell you what is going on in his mind, and then only you can decide if you want the relationship to go forward. You are in control. Not him.
He calls you daily, so tell him to come over and that you need for the two of you to talk. Don't take no for an answer, he needs to be a man and face you in person. Pick a day and a time and make it happen.
You will feel better once it's all out in the open.
Also... it is common for cheaters to say the other person is cheating (and you're not). They are trying to deflect the conversation and turn it around like this is all your fault, your imagination. Don't stand for this! Love yourself more than you love him. Stand up for yourself. How he is acting is unacceptable and you need to tell him that.
I understand the frustration and desperation in these situations.
I agree with a lot of what has been said....it will be helpful to have a clear and honest conversation with him. To clear things up and understand where you stand where where each of you two want to do.
It sounds like he has been avoiding this request to have a talk...if he does not want to talk to you... do not beg him. I know it’s hard because I have done it myself.
Make it clear that you need to have a conversation with him but don’t sit around waiting for him.... it may be time to start moving on. It is time to learn to love yourself first. It is time to walk away with dignity.
When people walk away from your life... let them walk!. Many times, they are not meant to be in our destiny... not meant to be with us in our future path. The sun is out just ahead of you.... simply keep walking until you get there.
Greg