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Ok...a friend mentioned this in her journal...I live it..I know. Please discuss.
As for my personal opinion, his behavior is probably not soemthing that needs a fancy label - it is obviously behavior that is distant, disrespectful, dishonest and needs to be addressed directly if you find it affecting you negatively.
A marriage is more than being a good provider. I hope you look into counseling. If he won't go with you then go for yourself. You will need it.
Yes Emotional Infedelity burnt me just as badly as the physical did... it eventually caused me to ask her to leave because it was clear I wasn;t her one and only. That's not what I signed up for.
I gave everything for her and she couldn;t even keep her mind off of other guys.. let alone her hands... time to F*K off and sleep in the bed she has made for herself.
She was emotionally abusing me too by having these relationships with these guys.. she knew I couldn;t handle it and didn't care. She even made me fele like it was MY fault that she was seeking out other men.
even worse.. she even made me believe *I* was the abusive one.
#61....from the little info you provided doesn't sound like emotional abuse. Sounds more like emotional infidelity. "Goes out to restaurants and doesn't invite you"????? Ummm, that has to stop!