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Completely over it but...

Stephanie1977
Stephanie1977

then I look at my car thinking I have a scratch on it (was just bird poop lol) and realize I still have my winter tires on in June. So I cried. So silly and trivial for me to cry over this of course. So the tread wears down. So what? I have two dads that can mansplain this to me so I really shouldn't worry but still. Thought I'd mention it as even though I couldn't possibly care any less about my ex it really does suck not to have someone to change my tires.  Certainly not something I should cry over but it happens. The situation is stressful nonetheless. 

serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
I get this way as I have no support or anyone to call. Which this issues is the least of my worries but during moments of frustration its there.
Stephanie1977
Stephanie1977
Yes! I think because I alienated so many people to hide the mess I was dealing with I'm used to having no one. I get anxiety over silly little things and I just have to laugh it off. I mean what else can I do? Hey at least I'm ready for winter already, right??
sjs777
sjs777
you don't have no one and theres nothing wrong with a breakdown. you are so strong. how do i know? ...a friend knows - have an amazing day
Stephanie1977
Stephanie1977
Thank you, sjs777 you all are saving me!!
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