yo sis, my silliness here is meant as a distraction from the threads ominous tone... and it has worked, the focus bounced onto me.
it's like shooting an already dead horse, I'm not posting a new thread burying threads for legitimate calls for help.
I stand for a supportive environment free from attacks and pointless bickering... and where nasty, personal attacks littered with profanity are removed and attackers banned.
my goodness people, is this a darn schoolyard...?
I NEEDED HELP TODAY
I AM FACING LOSING VISITATION WITH MY DAUGHTER
now that post is buried under a pointless personal battle.

Thanks Giddy.

Sometimes I just like to look at other threads to see what others are going thru....how they handle things.
I just don't find a lot of serious threads to refer to for some perspective.
The serious threads get lost in all the bullshit.

Look, I am ALL FOR THE SILLY,RAUNCHY, POSTS.....it's just a little too much HERE.
I would like a forum to handle things seriously....and another where we can vent, laugh, etc.
Can't this just be split out a little better?

I think that's what the 'higher-ups' are trying by moving stuff to the OT section...I said 'think'...




But I mean this in all seriousness:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NDPT0Ph5rA

Like I have said before " you all nuts "

@blindsided - I disagree with having different forums for every single different topic. The silly threads on here have helped me so much NOT think of the problems I have and believe me I have gotten knocked down in some form or another almost every day of my life for the past year and a half.

I try my hardest to read new peoples posts and will give my words of wisdom (lol) to support them.
I won't read a long post that goes on forever - I have no attention span - But I will always be more then happy to help scrape someone off the floor if they need it.

Regarding people getting banned - I hate it but what can we to do about it? Nothing really.

We can all try not to put each other down and bring up past experiences. That's a step in the right direction isn't it?

I dont know what I want for dinner.

Im not sure why its not as fun to go into the removed posts to read them, maybe we all need the conflict since we ourselves are conflicted...hence why we are herfe....
The silly, the serious, we all run the gammut of moods and emotions...there is always a post to one or another..
Im not sure what went down...but I know I get something from being here...

then bump your post, dave. i think kids in the schoolyard could figure that out.

if you are so desparate that a joke, profanity, or even a possible attack set you off, and you have to snitch and start a campaign, that's certainly not helping you. then you need real help, councellors, psychiatrists, real life friends... not an online board.

people you will encounter in your life don't give a shit what you are going through... a lot of sharks. that's reality. good luck with that if you can't handle an internet board.

Blindsided... A little history about this forum...

There was time when there were members that would hijack a serious thread with the silliness... Then I had a serious problem with that... The newbies that did not know those members and were really in the breathtaking pain of the initial breakup would run screaming from the site.. I had so many PM's asking for support that it got ridiculous.. I started complaining to the people doing it.. It caused more problems than it helped.. believe me... At least now, the silliness is kept to their own threads... (I don't think any of those members are still here)...

Since I am the only adult here the rest of you should have a time out.

um...George...psst...look at your avi...

99

@Dave - Okay, I've got the image together... now what?

and keep on keepin on with the silliness - i need some light in this very dark thread

RMAN you messed it up I was going for 100 I am going to report you. lol

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offended at the pot shots

would like it to stop