zoot--you must be in a bad mood today or taking everything out of context that has been posted. If I were a bully, I wouldn't back out of the situation like I have. If someone else (such as you) would like to befriend her and try to help her, then do so, that is your choice. I never responded to any of her posts, never sent her any messages, etc. so I cannot be called a bully nor a mean person. I did not kick her when she was down-I again, replied to nothing in her posts. My intent was not to "gang" up on her as you so put it, it was to make others aware of the situation. It is their choice alone as to what they want to do.

If you're so concerned about her, why are you in B&D instead of the other boards she is in? Maybe your focus should be helping her yourself instead of complaining about a warning in here. Ya think?

zoot isnt in a bad mood, they have a good point,
when someone is hurting your supposed to help them, not be the first to cast stones
just cause were in this forum doesnt give the excuse to be so cold hearted

I don't know who this downNout is until now, I don't want to know about this, to me it's an isolated incident. I've probably posted things to others disliking. I'm here for support and advice, I have other issues other than going through a sad divorce. I know myself and others have participated in "character assasination" only to feel more superior and to proclaim my righteousness. I can tell when response to a post is starting to get "crazy" and ignore it. I need to work on myself.

"bump"

Here is the issue folks the internet and this site can be used for good or bad. Thats a given and I am sure we all know this. That said most people on here that I have come across are wonderful caring genuine people who mean what they say and are looking for and/or giving support. That said from time to time we have a few that creep in for less then scurplious reasons and are here to either harrass exs or stbxs. Then you have trolls who are looking for the vulnerable to hit on or just to mess with. We also have people who need more help then they could ever get here. Trying to figure out who is who some times can be difficult and the wrong post at the right time may get a responce that may not be quite on the mark. We all have to remember that everyones situation is different and things can be taked out of context. We still need to be careful about what we post and how we respond. Just be vigilant and every one keep their cool and we will all get through the drama that can be DS.

Thanks Wick

I don't know her, but I am not comfortable making journal entries on the internet. My journal on my own computer is password protected!