Lets not get wiggy. We're still in Kansas Toto!

unless noted otherwise, we should all just try and be supportive of people who come to this community seeking help.

i don't know what is going on here, but I can testify what loves2fly said. Yes I have been attacked several times by my ex here. It is nOT a good feeling. So if people here are a bit wary, then I think we have that right to be.

mind my own business? my value is calculated by how many hugs I have given? wow I hope that's not true!

Ok, just go and read some of the the threads that downNout has posted. She does need professional help. She was just saying anything at times for shock value alone.

If you are not fully informed as to what someone is talking about, than just hold your comments. Those of us that have been on here for a while have seen many ppl come on here for nothing more than attention, dating or to harrass their exs/stbxs. That is all loves2fly is trying to point out.
Lets just all take a breath.

If it's who I think it is, my concern is that she was posted about the effects of her dad going through his third divorce. That was interesting to me. Also, I backed off because she was just 18 years old.

We all need help at times. The whole point of this forum is support. This is not a perv/alky site for parties.

Why stop? Let things unfold and work themselves out. No one is forced to sign on. If two ex's are here...so what? Take cyber with a grain of salt and tongue in cheek. Good Lord.

And I thought my ex was controlling...lol.

As a rather new member around here, I for one, am grateful for the heads up. We're all going through a lot right now and some of us don't know up from down. I never imagined people would imposter themselves. They obviously need even more help than we do. I can imagine a lot of people have major trust issues right now (I guess I do too as I won't post any journal entries yet.)

Is this a free forum? My comments this morning do no harm to anyone. Ignore them if you are somehow offended by them. Or include me in the group as a friend. All I want is a place where I, too, can express my self thru the course of one of the most painful experiences of my life. In relative safety.

zoot, I respect what you have to say, but unless you have had an ex come on here and post in forums things that are private, that were shared in confidence, then I think you would rethink your thought process of letting them fight it out. Or maybe you just enjoy seeing someone get torn down? I would hope not. It is hurtful, spiteful and mean. Some things cannot be taken with a grain of salt or tongue in cheek.

Just what am I missing here? Like, if your not in the clique and know every detail of every life I should shut up?
yeah, right.

downNout placed a post on here about her dad. She has been major trouble in other DS sections. She doesn't have any journal entries and is signing up for a lot of different groups. I'm guessing she signed up for this one after she's probably been kicked out of the other ones. From my understanding, some other DSer's have reported her to Doug. Just a word of caution to all.Posted on 10/14/07, 11:10 pm

I post on what I see...not gossip.

Zoot, some of us talk to one another on the Phone, and some of us are Professional Peers, for me I am a Professional Aviator, and many of the people on here fly, or we are aware of the others in our industry... I inspect many aircraft some military most are civilian, we are true FRIENDS IN REAL LIFE... that is all no big click just respect...

CATIA would be a better topic then. The rest of us are here and dealing with life. We are all not high flyers, but we are all in the same boat. Keep the private gossip just that, private. We will not pretend to know what you are talking about, no matter how much you love yourself. Your position in life is meaningless here. This is divorce discussion chat. Not look at me I am here chat.

Note: This was not posted because of paranoia or drama. I am not in a clique here either. I read her posts and in the beginning felt very bad for her and was hoping I could be of some help to her. However, after reading more and more and checking into the situation I backed out right away. Because I had this knowledge and then saw where she posted on the B&D site I felt I had to warn all of the good people on here about her. If anyone has any quams about a member or posting that people are warning you about, go into the rooms they've posted in and read. I am on other rooms in DS (for support/help) and I don't appreciate someone posting garbage like she did and just totally being unkind. This site is for people who need support, advice, help, etc. It is not for people such as her. I am more than willing to help anyone who needs it, I just won't put up with the bogus postings/people.

Lew-Thank you! DownNout does need professional help-she can't get the kind of help she needs on DS.

Any of you that believe in her and want to help her, knock yourselves out. I for one will stay far away from her.

She needs help so off with her head...lmbo.

Doom, Doom, Doom.

Try to Love her if you are so understanding. Or just hang with your bully friends. Who cares.

People like you who kick when down will just frustrate the hurting one. Yes hurting one if what you say is true - (needs help).

I will discuss, and I dont have to do research on the other people....most are different one day till the next anyway...thus, reason for this forum.

You get your jollies ganging up on people? Shame on you. Shame on your cohorts.