I think I'm in the category of GET OVER IT ALREADY. But most people have been patient with me and I appreciate most sincerely.

yep get it

the nasty names still get called

but i keep coming back like a bad nightmare to some

I think being judged on here is about as equal to winning a beauty contest judged by the deaf, dumb, and blind.

Yes and no. You will be judged any any humans at any given time when you open up and their perspective is different than yours. These are the moments where you develop strength and draw from the wisdom of those that have something with substance to say and also learn from the judgmental morons and learn to pardon their ignorance. It's a win-win situation in my not so humble opinion. *smacks your cute ass*

Every single person who comes on DS gets judged by everyone else. You can't get around it, that's what people do.

Don't worry about it Rman, those who are your true friends will remain your friends, and the rest don't really matter in the grand scheme of things.

I can understand how people could feel that way, but that happens everywhere you go doesn't it? - Not you - you - I mean with people in general

I won't judge you rman - you've always been nice to me. Most people on this site have been.

Hi..I think we see and hear ourselves one way. We are all flawed yep..even me..it is good for us to hear what some people might think. You can take it or leave it. Hopefully you/me will take the best with us. Some people are angry all the time at everything. They are not happy unless complaining and blaming. I like it that you are honest. You will gain a lot.

Is it being judged or people not agreeing with you. I have been doing some work on me and I've learned I feel judge when people don't agree with me. It's taking time...but I am trying to get to the point where I can shake it off. However if someone is calling you names on here that's horrible.

I haven't gone thru that however I've seen some very honest confessions here and I have read some hurtful replies. I don't like it. Never point a finger at someone because you have 3 fingers pointing back at you!. I appreciate all honesty here and judge no one. So don't you feel bad at all ok? We are all not like that!

It's like an illness around here lately.... things are going on that I thought never would.

I said nothing on that post, as I had nothing to say, other than I have done that myself, with less regret than you had.

You know I went public with my journals for a while, didn't seem to serve me either... people want you to be who they "think" you are, not who you are. When you don't measure up, it's like.... pfffft, done with you.... or you should have done this, or that... well, fuck them, how much of a friend were they ever in the first place?

It's time like this you should be finding out who your friends are, not a time where you have to sort through the posers.

Sorry about that bro, if there's anything I can do, I am at your disposal.

It is NEVER my place to judge anyone for any reason...

I don't know that see judgments, so much as disagreements. Not that judgmental people aren't here on DS, but I think that sort of thing gets smacked down pretty quickly in BU/D.

Everyone has different perspectives and experiences and will judge based on those perspectives. Couple that with people coming here in some sort of emotional disrepair, and yeah, disagreements will happen. If I take it that seriously, it's time to close the browser and slowly back away from the computer.

My favorite quote with respect to being judged by others:

"Those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter."

Yep. I was treated pretty badly right after I joined. I decided it was important for me to ignore that stuff, and look for meaningful connections. I have done that and that is pretty much the most important thing for me about DS. The people who I care about.

Got any tacos, TD?

For you brother, limitless supply.

PS. They will not make you feel any better.