Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Have you ever felt as though once you spill your guts on DS, that from that point on, you are being judged by others? I have...
Ultimately, your friends will be your friends no matter what you divulge.
They wish to remain anonymousish.
I am sorry that someone judged you and am not quite sure what it is in reference too, but You know who you are. It is nice to come here and bounce things off people but you are living your life, and you don't need anyones approval to do that.
You only have to answer to you..
So please take what helps you here, and let the rest of the people that judge you go..
Someone said and I can't recall who, that if people judge you, then they are not your friend. I would take that to the bank. Hold close those people that are honest but true to you as a person. Let the rest of them go find someone else to play with....
I am sorry that you have been hurt, and hope that it won't make you stop taking risk so that you can live fully! Healing hugs, Kimmee
I had a bad experience with someone who's long gone, but I decided to keep my issues with him off of the board. I believe but have no proof that he spread lies about me and lost me friends on here at a time when I still really needed them.
Oh well, I've also met a couple people who will be lifelong friends. So I guess, you win some and lose some.....
I C E D T E A...
Rman, marry Tegian.
Think nothing of this other "thing" your involved in.