Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I spoke to my ex today. She broke up with me about five years ago. I have not been able to get over her. I did not help matters by remaining friends with her all this time. So today I spoke with her and I don't know why I did this, but I told her I wasn't over her. That I wished she would give me another chance. So she made it clear how much over me she is. She's with someone else now and that's to be expected. She broke up with me five years ago. But it still somehow really hurt me to have her tell me she's moved on to someone else. I feel so stupid for feeling this way. And I feel so regretful that I didn't just cut her out of my life five years ago. She's the one who wanted to remain friends. I should have said no. And so today I shut her out. Completely. Deleted her phone number, deleted photos, deleted from social media. Now I wish I could just delete her from my heart, because I'm hurting so badly and somehow it feels actually worse than it did when she broke up with me five years ago.
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
Value your self worth. She didn't deserve you and you deserve a relationship that meets all your needs.
Maybe try councilimg if it might help to move on. I know it's hard. When I was dumped many years ago by this one girl, it took me 5 years to move on.
Don't waste another second of your life on a girl who didn't see how amazing you are.
Please love yourself more than her. Let her go for good.
Wish you all the best!
You never let yourself heal, you never dealt with the loss of the relationship.
You need to stand up for yourself, and do the healing your soul needs.
Prefect reason not to stay friends after a break up. IT dragged you through 5 years of hell, you should have been healed and moved on, gotten new hobbies and done new things.
please do yourself some good and never talk top her again.
But if you have been friends with her for the last 5 years, didn't you know she was seeing someone now?
Don't beat yourself up for staying friends. It's what you wanted at the time. But now, you've grown, and it's time to move on and go meet some new people and get yourself out there! Good job on blocking all ways of contacting her. Time to move on..... you can do it!!!
Sometimes girls will break up with a guy but then say "But let's be friends...." as sort of a way to let a guy down easy. They don't mean - Let's be friends - literally. It's just something "nice" to say (or so she thinks). Plus you two have the long distance thing working against you.
It is in your best interest to move on, go on dates, talk to new girls.... to go and have a happy life! If you truly feel stuck, you could benefit from some counseling.
I also found great support in joining a singles ministry at a local church. Lots of great messages, prayer support and fun/fellowship with like minded singles. It really helped to be around other people in the same situation as me. It helped give me a new start.
Prayers for your situation!