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A woman asked me out tonight

Rman
Rman
I just got home from my 2nd job tonight. A woman who works in my building asked me if I wanted to have lunch sometime. I have never been asked out before (except for a taco invitation from Kelly). I told the woman at my work that I don't think that I could do it. I might be the biggest pussy in the world. I need the guys on here to make fun of me and call me gay or something (not that being gay is a bad thing). Thank you in advance for insulting my manhood...
Rman
Rman
Thanks for all the good advice, kind words and insults people. It has helped me. I stayed up very late last night and ended up rushing around to get ready for work. I wasn't able to eat a sit down breakfast, but I did invent something to for those of us on the go. Just take some tacos, and throw them in a blender with some milk and ice. The taco breakfast shake is a great way to start the day!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I say this. get out of your comfront zone. And start a bucket list. Do all the things on the list in six. months. Even dating a man might be a good thing for you. however. If a man dates a many who would pay?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Silly Matt, the pitcher pays!
deleted_user
deleted_user
R-if a woman asked me out on a date wouldn't you want ME to go?
deleted_user
deleted_user
*crunch, crunch*
deleted_user
deleted_user
HA Jakey, you never tried the sit on the blender when there's warm water in there trick?

And I thought you were well versed.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Look, I live in a double-wide.

So a blender is as close as I will ever git. I mean get.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You have the right to say no.
deleted_user
deleted_user
you're not gay for turning her down dude, you're gay for what we did togther last week. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
So how long has your mother or sister worked in your building. Ask and ye shall receive.
deleted_user
deleted_user
ROFLMAO @ cbarrett76!!!!!! YOU ARE SUCH A GOOD SPORT! I enjoy your sense of humor and your posts....
deleted_user
deleted_user
cbarrett, he's BI.

He knows how to enjoy whatever he's faced with.
Rman
Rman
cbarrett...lol
TD...shut up...I'm not bi...I'm 100% flaming!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Flaming taco?

Help me help YOU.
Rman
Rman
SHOW ME THE MONEY! Seriously though...I might not be ready to date just yet. It's only been about 10 weeks since I got dumped from a 10 year marriage. When you eat the same taco for 12+ years, it's kind of hard to venture into the land of the new tacos...if you catch my drift.