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A woman asked me out tonight

Rman
Rman
I just got home from my 2nd job tonight. A woman who works in my building asked me if I wanted to have lunch sometime. I have never been asked out before (except for a taco invitation from Kelly). I told the woman at my work that I don't think that I could do it. I might be the biggest pussy in the world. I need the guys on here to make fun of me and call me gay or something (not that being gay is a bad thing). Thank you in advance for insulting my manhood...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I LOVE how you don't give up Kelly on the taco wanna eat baby....Inspirational!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will never give up on RMAN... I don't quit on anything......

So, RMAN.. when are we going out?
Rman
Rman
Thanks for calling me a pickle lover (what does that mean anyway)? I just don't feel like going out much. I've got invited to some local DS meetups, but just feel too tired to go. I think a woman can fuck up a man, mentally, as much as, or more, than a man can fuck up a woman. I'm actually not into butt sex, by the way...not that there is anything wrong with it...
deleted_user
deleted_user
What, are you 'fraid of girls or something, shhesh, they don't bite, at least not hard enough to make you cry, well maybe in your case.....LOL Go have lunch with her and have some fun with your new friend. Maybe they will have taco's on the menu..hehehehe
deleted_user
deleted_user
GAY!

Just kidding...but seriously...maybe she's a lesbian and was just asking you to lunch thinking you are gay and would have someone to pal around with at the local gay bars and stuff....


There...is that insulting enough?


LOL.....kidding....

Yeah...it's only lunch...and it may be a nice change of pace :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Clearly, I didn't ask you to a meet up with "Others" I asked you to go with me... I'm not scary, I promise! I'm innocent but will laugh and talk your ear off, I'm a GOOD time DAMN IT!
Rman
Rman
Being gay is not an insult. Being a gay pussy and pretending to be straight is...I'm not gay, but I think it may take more than 3 months to get back into the scene. Kelly may be the only one to save me. I went to Taco Bell tonight, by the way...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Really? Me?!?! I can try too... you just have to tell me how and I will do it....

I don't eat Taco Bell..... but glad I got you thinking of tacos!
Rman
Rman
I'm sorry if I offend people with my nonsense. It's just shit that goes on in my mind and in my life. I'm not really sure why I always talk about tacos. I think it's like a therapy. Anyway, sorry that I take up posts to talk about tacos all the time. I'm not gonna stop, but I just wanted you to know that I don't intend to disrupt this board. I simply want to talk about tacos...the food...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Is someone talking crap about our taco talk? I'm glad you aren't going to stop, you entertain me and make me not think about the real bullshit going on in my life. The way I see it is if people don't want to read about fucking tacos then they shouldn't read the shit, end of story.
patti22
patti22
Go out. Have fun. Just don't tell her about your Taco fixation for a date or two.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Mmmmmm.....tacos.....*drools*....
queendy
queendy
If you want your manhood restored ask her for dinner instead and for coffee afterwards. You will feel better, with your ego.
deleted_user
deleted_user
If your not ready emotionally then that's understandable otherwise I say GO FOR IT!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I see where you're coming from ... you're still with the STBX ... you're still screwed up ... maybe you're not quite ready. That being said ... she just asked you to lunch, NOT to dinner or a bar. You should reconsider.