Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just got home from my 2nd job tonight. A woman who works in my building asked me if I wanted to have lunch sometime. I have never been asked out before (except for a taco invitation from Kelly). I told the woman at my work that I don't think that I could do it. I might be the biggest pussy in the world. I need the guys on here to make fun of me and call me gay or something (not that being gay is a bad thing). Thank you in advance for insulting my manhood...
Peace and hugs to ya!
I love your silly taco stuff too. Makes me smile and laugh when I feel overwhelmed.....a silly taco hug when no real ones are around.
one day, you will be ready. Just don't push it or try to make it happen. You will know when you are ready .
best of luck
She doesn't have your balls anymore.
Go forth and date.
Your not cheating, and just be you.
Okay, don't be you, be me, but other than that...
it's OKAY!
No really thats awesome if I were you the first thing I would do is tell her you were a bit nervious and would she reconsider...
This is exactly what the nice and shy guys need out there. Women that are willing to risk the rejection and ask guys out.
As busy as most people are in life these days, we need a little help.
I have had several oprotunities that I let slip away....regreting that now!
As for your situation, I think you should just go. Make it clear your in the middle of a divorce and you just want to go and have fun thats all. No strings attached. If your honest it will be better :D You work your ass off 2 jobs, go to just dinner, dont make promises to call her or have any other dates just go for some fun. You cant spend your life swallowed by this divorce ( even though this is probably the hardest thing you've been through) and buried in your work.. its not a healthy way to be. Your a nice guy Rman and you deserve some fun. I know what your saying. And if you decide not to change your mind then get up a group of guy friends and go out for some drinks or dinner to catch up. Dont let work and your divorce control you. Either way get out and have some fun.
You vying for a position in Rman's pants?