Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi All,
I'm writing after sometime and I really want to thank many members here who helped me out.
Something happened that just made me move on and not even want to talk to my ex anymore. I'll just write about it in this post.
Well, I wasn't able to maintain NC as I said in my last post. she is married, and yet I talked to her. First it was good, then after a few days, I don't know how but we were down to intimate talks.
I just went out with a group of people on a holiday and got some pics with one girl, and stupid me, I sent them to her to make her jealous. It was incredibly idiotic, but it helped me in the end, ahh whatever.
So she gets all riled up, all jealous and possessive as she always was, and we have a long long chat.We chat for a few hours and then I just suddenly ask her about her sex life. I expected a "none of your business" lesson, but she tells me everything. And I mean everything. I know she told me because she trusts me, and I'm never gonna break it, but somehow it hurt in a way I can't explain.The one line I can never forget, "I really miss making love with you."
I don't know what happened, but suddenly I lost all interest in talking to her, not because of guilt or anger, but it just happened. I do not think badly of her or anything, but I just don't want to have to do anything with her anymore. Her photo doesn't look attractive to me anymore, I haven't even seen her photo after that. I still would've felt bad if she were around me, but she is faraway, happy with someone else. And even if she's not, it's not my place to make her happy.
Now it is complete NC for me, but it is not hard anymore. I'm thinking of life's other problems, getting in shape and well, finding someone else whom I may like.
I know that breaking NC is not the way, but in my case I think I received a closure of sorts. I'm feeling better and it has been 20 something days, lets see how the future turns out.
Thank you all. Many people in this group helped me greatly and I hope to stay in touch with all of you.
Saurabh
I'm writing after sometime and I really want to thank many members here who helped me out.
Something happened that just made me move on and not even want to talk to my ex anymore. I'll just write about it in this post.
Well, I wasn't able to maintain NC as I said in my last post. she is married, and yet I talked to her. First it was good, then after a few days, I don't know how but we were down to intimate talks.
I just went out with a group of people on a holiday and got some pics with one girl, and stupid me, I sent them to her to make her jealous. It was incredibly idiotic, but it helped me in the end, ahh whatever.
So she gets all riled up, all jealous and possessive as she always was, and we have a long long chat.We chat for a few hours and then I just suddenly ask her about her sex life. I expected a "none of your business" lesson, but she tells me everything. And I mean everything. I know she told me because she trusts me, and I'm never gonna break it, but somehow it hurt in a way I can't explain.The one line I can never forget, "I really miss making love with you."
I don't know what happened, but suddenly I lost all interest in talking to her, not because of guilt or anger, but it just happened. I do not think badly of her or anything, but I just don't want to have to do anything with her anymore. Her photo doesn't look attractive to me anymore, I haven't even seen her photo after that. I still would've felt bad if she were around me, but she is faraway, happy with someone else. And even if she's not, it's not my place to make her happy.
Now it is complete NC for me, but it is not hard anymore. I'm thinking of life's other problems, getting in shape and well, finding someone else whom I may like.
I know that breaking NC is not the way, but in my case I think I received a closure of sorts. I'm feeling better and it has been 20 something days, lets see how the future turns out.
Thank you all. Many people in this group helped me greatly and I hope to stay in touch with all of you.
Saurabh
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