So sorry you feel mistreated. Mean people suck! Families and loved ones hurt the most. People who are mean always cramp my style! I get so discouraged and depressed. Maybe you can sit them all down and explain how you feel. I don't know if that would help and maybe you've already tried. Just try to find some people who value you no matter what. Easier said than done, I know. The thing is that everyone has their problems and difficulties in life. Just remember yours are not different, they are just of the bipolar variety. And that's ok! It doesn't give people free reign to unload on you. I'm sure they wouldn't like it if you used their weaknesses against them always...picking apart their every flaw...but you rise above that. Beacause that only brings you down to their level....hope things get better! Hang in there on your terms! (((Hugs)))

Thank you

I am so mad at everyone they all hurt me with their words. They keep on and on. I wish they would stop!!

Yes, people can, indeed, be mean. Anything in particular, Bravered? Any THEY in particular?

Yes, people can, indeed, be mean. May a flow of nice people rise to comfort you.

My bf is always hurting me. The minute I bring up something that bothers me. He never thinks he's done anything wrong. He says it's always poor me. That hurts me to then he's screaming at me so I am done. I am tired of being hurt he says I need to change the way I think. Why does he always want to hurt me. He knows just what to say to hurt me. I hate him! I told him that. I told him I don't want to be with him anymore. I am so mad !! I had a bad day. Maybe I do need to change my thinking maybe it is poor me. Why does he have to always hurt me. That's why I wanna be alone

I am hurting so bad inside. I hurt so bad inside. He never admits when he does something wrong. He thinks he can just say anything and when he hurts me he acts like I shouldn't get so mad about it. Just be a real man and apologize!

Be a real man and take care of your woman I can't do it anymore!

He won't listen when I tell him I don't want to be with him. He doesn't take me seriously.

How were people being mean to you and who was it? His family?

A bully only has power as long as you let him/her be a bully....once you stand up for yourself and say enoughs, enough....then they have no power. If people know they can walk all over you, and you let them, they have no reason not to.

You need to stand up for yourself.

I'm sorry that you're feeling so sad. Bullying is wrong, period. You have to stick-up for yourself. I wish you strength. If you allow it, you're playing right into it...walk away, be silent, and see what happens. If he gets a rise out of you, it's his reason to dump on you. Do not let that happen, please?

hi, you've said similar things before and we've suggested you leave. You then usually post at some point that you are wrong and the other people, usually your boyfriend are ok. Sometimes this is a week or so later, sometimes it's only hours. I've seen this happen now at least 3 times, probably more.

I think that either you do is either to make that final break or get some professional help re why your view of the relationship is flip flopping so often.

Unless you take action I think this situation is just going to continue and I'm not sure that we are helping you much.

Well thank u fish for your interest in my situation. I just need a place to talk. You guys are helping me just being there for me. I realize this is a pattern but I feel I might be codependent. Feeling like I can't be without him. I think the best thing might be without him. He doesn't take me seriously. Then I'm afraid to be alone too. This is why I'm flip flopping. I have talked with my therapist about this many times.

If you've talked to your therapist many times and you are still going through this what does that tell you?

Perhaps you need to consider another therapist? Otherwise this is simply going to continue.

If you are looking for just sympathy that's fine, but if you are looking to actually change the situation I'm not sure sympathy is actually helping you - actually the opposite as it's more like an enabler.

I am going to post in this group. I don't have anyone.