Why is your husband being so unsympathetic. If you're realy sick then dont clean bugger it. There's more to life

im so sorry that he is being unsupportive, i think that you'd be making the right move going to see the doctor. If you are feeling that low it is a serious thing, maybe you could try and explain that to your hubby? Im here if you need to chat :)

Just don't clean, if he wants it done so bad he can get off his butt and do it.

Thats aweful! Out of everyone in your life your husband should understand how things make you feel. Dont worry about cleaning babe.

OOOO, oooooo,, that's the way I used to feel when I got preg. :)

I wouldnt let it worry me. If my mans being an asshole i'll be one right back. If he doesnt respect you then dont respect what he says. I wouldnt clean up if that were me, I wouldnt care if my life depended on it

i remember other posts you've written where hubby is insensitive. it must be terrible. don't know what to tell you as he sounds pretty much bulletproof to any of the attempts you have made to change him.

and i think that's it. you can't change him.

maybe someone else can offer a next step. all i can do for you is pray.

hoping for the best
cliff

I begged and pleaded not to clean and he finally showed some sympathy I am going to the GP soon. I am gonna call tomorrow Thanks everyone

Princess! Why do you let him treat you like this? I mean, it just seems to me that he is a very nasty person towards you. You deserve better, trust me. He is way too demanding of you and controlling. I cant believe this happens to you sweetie

If he has a history of acting this way, for your own physical and mental health, you need to get away from him if he refuses to grow up.....YOU DON'T deserve to be treated that way, no matter what.

I'm confused....I thought you weren't bipolar anymore? I thought you just had PTSD?

I am not sure I am bipolar anymore--but my sickness isn't as bad anymore. I am no longer as depressed.

Besides.....you can have depression with PTSD.

Princess, I think you're making the right move by seeing the doctor. The house can wait! I can't believe your husband would make you clean the house while sick.

*HUGS* Feel better.

Sure, you can be both bipolar and ptsd, and as a special bonus, this week only, you can have nausea and vomiting thrown in for free!!!!!

Poor kid, if he keeps after you to clean, just throw up on him. Even if you can't, act like you are going to, and then clap your hand over your mouth and run to the bathroom. That ought to get him off your case.

You could even call plaintively from the bathroom, "Honey, can you hold my head? Honey, I think I missed the toilet, can you wipe this up for me?" That might cause him to decide to go run a few errands and get dinner at McDonald's, and see ya later!

Meanwhile, you get a little peace and quiet.