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Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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BipolarPrincess 02/22/2010

Hubby now says we can't afford a honey moon because of the massive amount of debt that we as a family owe and i don't get to go on one.

Am I the only female that wasn't allowed a honey moon?

I definitely feel unloved. This is enough to make any married
female depressed. Let alone a bipolar married female.

deleted_user 02/22/2010

That totally sucks.......even though we didn't have much money we went on a honeymoon. I'm sorry this is happening to you.
(((((hugs)))))
Andrea

BipolarPrincess 02/22/2010

Is there any music out there that could describe how i am feeling so i can play it and make my hubby feel like an ass? I'm trying to hide my tears so he doesn't know how I feel.

deleted_user 02/22/2010

Sorry, honey, I can't think of any. Have you tried telling him how disappointd you are? Or are you able to do that? I know if it were me I wouldn't be able to talk about it because I would be to upset.
(((((hugs)))))
Andrea

BipolarPrincess 02/22/2010

If I ever get a divorce I am never getting married again. Marriage is a heartache and it is more trouble than it is worth.

deleted_user 02/22/2010

Well the only honeymoon I got was a two night stay in a hotel that was about an hour away from my house and my father paid for it. We didn't have much money and I was 3 months pregnant at the time.

deleted_user 02/22/2010

I didn't have a honeymoon.

chilvr 02/22/2010

i never got a honeymoon, in fact in 27 years of marriage the only "vacations" we ever went on were to visit his family in alabama....

deleted_user 02/22/2010

Sounds like a man that wants to keep his family's head above water... I like him...

ReginaPhalange 02/22/2010

We got married on a budget and never had a honeymoon. It never really bothered me, I was marrying the man i loved and instead of a honeymoon we paid for some renovation work that needed doing

deleted_user 02/22/2010

my boyfriend wont marry me...

go figure

deleted_user 02/22/2010

Grow.the.fuck.up

deleted_user 02/22/2010

I'm confused. How long have you been married? I thought it's been a while. Was this a second honeymoon or something?
Anyway, maybe you can just celebrate another way a candlelight dinner or whatever.

deleted_user 02/22/2010

(hasty edit)

It's the Ol' Life is supposed to conform to a Disney Fairy Tale (or I'm gonna throw a tantrum) puh lease.

If you wanted a honey moon curbing spendaholic tendencies would've been way to go. Pffft.

deleted_user 02/22/2010

blaming your husband for the debt that your family incurred seems a little unfair to him.

ZanyBeeper 02/22/2010

I never had a honeymoon either. In fact, hubby and I have never been away from home lest we brought the whole fam damily with us!! It ain't gonna kill ya. I am not surprised at all by your hubby's decision given the state of the economy.

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