I'm devastated. I went on vacation with my parents, came back and my husband was acting strange. Everything was wonderful before I left. He was friends with his best friend and his wife. His wife was going through alot and he was txting her ALOT. I said something to him about it and he just told me they were friends andvi was being paranoid. Well we ended up getting into a big argument because he was deleting their txt msgs and. I talked to the womans husband about it all. We agreed we didn't think anything was going on but it was inappropriate behavior. Well the next day he cooled down, held me all night and was so loveable...he said he was trying not to be angry at me and her husband. We made love yesterday, he told me how beautiful I was and how he loved me. He was going to town to get something on his truck checked...I told him I wanted to go which he's usually all for. I had this feeling he was waiting for her to get off work so he could talk to her. He kissed me goodbye, told me he loved me and left. I had this gut feeling that told me to follow him. I lost him but drove by the car place first to see if he was there and he wasn't. I drove to her house and there was her truck and my husbands. I knocked on the door, no answer, I went inside I could hear talking from the bedroom...the door was open...they were just sitting on the edge of the bed naked.

They say they were thinking about it but changed their mind bc he loves me and she loves her husband and they were about to get dressed and my husband about to leave. He said if he was being accused he might as well do it because he was so mad at her husband and me he wasn't thinking straight.

He's begged for mine and her husband's forgiveness ....he's forgiven him...but I don't know what to do. He has cried and cried and I can tell he us genuinely sorry but I don't know if I could ever trust him again...if we have an argument is he going to run to someone else. How and why did this happen? He said I did nothing wrong he was just stupid. I feel broken and hopeless and if I leave I have no where to go. Should I give him another chance? How do you make such a decision? They've made it clear they will never speak again....I feel so dead inside.