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I'm devastated. I went on vacation with my parents, came back and my husband was acting strange. Everything was wonderful before I left. He was friends with his best friend and his wife. His wife was going through alot and he was txting her ALOT. I said something to him about it and he just told me they were friends andvi was being paranoid. Well we ended up getting into a big argument because he was deleting their txt msgs and. I talked to the womans husband about it all. We agreed we didn't think anything was going on but it was inappropriate behavior. Well the next day he cooled down, held me all night and was so loveable...he said he was trying not to be angry at me and her husband. We made love yesterday, he told me how beautiful I was and how he loved me. He was going to town to get something on his truck checked...I told him I wanted to go which he's usually all for. I had this feeling he was waiting for her to get off work so he could talk to her. He kissed me goodbye, told me he loved me and left. I had this gut feeling that told me to follow him. I lost him but drove by the car place first to see if he was there and he wasn't. I drove to her house and there was her truck and my husbands. I knocked on the door, no answer, I went inside I could hear talking from the bedroom...the door was open...they were just sitting on the edge of the bed naked.
They say they were thinking about it but changed their mind bc he loves me and she loves her husband and they were about to get dressed and my husband about to leave. He said if he was being accused he might as well do it because he was so mad at her husband and me he wasn't thinking straight.
He's begged for mine and her husband's forgiveness ....he's forgiven him...but I don't know what to do. He has cried and cried and I can tell he us genuinely sorry but I don't know if I could ever trust him again...if we have an argument is he going to run to someone else. How and why did this happen? He said I did nothing wrong he was just stupid. I feel broken and hopeless and if I leave I have no where to go. Should I give him another chance? How do you make such a decision? They've made it clear they will never speak again....I feel so dead inside.
They say they were thinking about it but changed their mind bc he loves me and she loves her husband and they were about to get dressed and my husband about to leave. He said if he was being accused he might as well do it because he was so mad at her husband and me he wasn't thinking straight.
He's begged for mine and her husband's forgiveness ....he's forgiven him...but I don't know what to do. He has cried and cried and I can tell he us genuinely sorry but I don't know if I could ever trust him again...if we have an argument is he going to run to someone else. How and why did this happen? He said I did nothing wrong he was just stupid. I feel broken and hopeless and if I leave I have no where to go. Should I give him another chance? How do you make such a decision? They've made it clear they will never speak again....I feel so dead inside.
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My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
Every time he opens his mouth now he is doing damage control. He is trying to keep you and his promise to never talk to her again doesn't matter, what about the next girl that comes along when he is mad at you! I don't know you but I can tell you this, you deserve better. However, if you do choose to stay, I agree with everyone else the two of you both need counseling. I chose to leave because I have trust issues and once you break my trust it takes years to get it back. It wasn't worth it to me to live in constant worry about where he was or what he was doing when I wasn't home. I wish you the best of luck and I'm praying for you!
went out my mind would go right to him cheating on me and it made me an ugly jealous suspicious person.after 17 y together it never died. (we are now getting divorced) it didnt help our marriage. i never trusted him ever again. it is betrayal in the highest form,it destroys your self esteem and it makes you feel like you did something something wrong. NO WAY.its his problem, you are great,beautiful,sexy, good enough,pretty enough,its his issues never ever yours.dont ever forget that. i personally would physically separate from him and give yourself time,talk talk talk,therapist friends family but not him!!! pray on whats best. good luck, its not easy. God Bless You,
Gina
Once the engagement comes round, for me, that's it. Hidden cameras, private investigators, phone taps, whatever it takes, no holds barred.
Adultery is a criminal offense here, but divorce court first, then jail her sorry ass.
- KK
GET OUT NOW!! You can Never trust him again and I don't blame him. I don't care if there is someone on her that is taking up for him. WHAT a LOSER!!! OMG! This tans my hide....
Seriously...;eave the sorry ass. Yes he made love to you, yes he kissed you and said he loved you before he left so once he left he kissed and yet still went to her house. NO GO BABE NO GO!!