My husband and I are doing well except for one thing. A year ago my birth control failed and I've been trying to find a replacement. This has led to me basically having a year long period which put a strain on our sex life and we'r very sexual people. Now we'r getting him a vasectomy but till them. I'm on a lot of hormones to control my period and birth control. Now sex has become painful and the best my doctor can say is that this will get better when I can decrease the hormones. I've tried lubes but it stiil hurts. This is really messing with my marriage. My husband is afraid I don't find him attractive and it certainly doesn't help my mood. Maybe this is the wrong place to discuss this but my mood is sinking because I feel like I'm failing him. We are try to work around the problem but I'm losing ground fast.