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Sadwriter24
Sadwriter24

My boyfriend Jeremy committed suicide Sept 9th 2015. I am heartbroken and so lost without him. I miss him everday. I have no one supporting me bc my parents didn't approve of our relationship. I feel so alone. I miss his presence :/

DryEyes90
DryEyes90
This is a very hard situation. It is hard to think that we cannot control anyone else and that we can't even be a reason to keep them around. You have to grieve and understand you had no part in their actions. You did everything you could and you have so much to still offer in this world. :) Keep on talking lady <3
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Gentle hug for you Sad.... I am so very sorry for your loss and the pain that you're in..... Can you make an appt with your family doctor to talk to him/her sweetie?



This is a huge loss.... and it's important that you get support.... I would also call bereavement groups in your area and see if there is a group for people who have lost a loved one to suicide

Gentle hug and a blessing....xo
andreal1973
andreal1973
I am so sorry for your loss and the fact that you Don't have the support from your mom. If you can get into a counselor it may help. Please keep talking and message me anytime you need to talk. Big Hugs!
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
I am so very sorry for your loss. I saw how devastated my dad was when mom died, likewise for my brother in law after my sister (his wife) died. I do not wish this pain on anybody.

There are so many parts of the recovery path. For me the idea of there being a new normal helped a lot! I know that I will never get my sister and parents back, so rather than try to get back to things "the way they were", I knew that I needed to find a new normal, and that was my target.

It can be a slow journey. I lost my sister in 2011; aside of occasional anger at her for leaving me to deal with our parents without her (an irrational anger, I know that!), I am at a new normal for her. Her husband just remarried, and I am totally happy for them!!

I lost my mom in 2014, she was well into dementia, so I had a long time telling her good by, and I think I am at my new normal.

I lost my dad in 2015, and I still miss him. I am now having more good days than bad days, so I guess I am doing well on finding that new normal.

ANd I wish you peace as you find your new normal.

gentle hugs
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