If I need some drynites like if I've got a sleepover and I'm out shopping with mum she will get them with me there and I really hope nobody sees them. The worst was when we met a teacher from school and mum was talking to her and the drynites were in the trolley and I'm sure she could see them.

Unfortunately, there is the stigma of teenagers and adults wearing diapers. When I was younger, I didn't go shopping with mum when she had to buy our diapers (for my sister and me) to avoid this. Now they are a lot of websites where you can order your protections. Most of them ship products in a neutral package. As you live in Germany, ask your parents to have a look on saveexpress.de for example.

When I was growing up my mum used to buy them, normally when I wasn’t with her. On the occasions I was with her I hated seeing them in the trolly, like Sazx said, it felt like everyone could see them. I used to try to cover them over with other items but the worst was when they were being checked through at the till, Im sure the lady knew they were for me.
Now I order online, much more convenient and far more discreet.

Hello, thanks for you replies!

Yeah i feel like you Sazx and Ritschie i also always feel worried that someone could see them in the card and is asking questions (even i have a younger sister and other might more likely think they are only for her)

yeah lots of times
and every one in store sees them

Yer she does but I would much rather not be there when she does x although once my mummy went on her own and brought me little girl pull ups like the 5-8 he ones and I had to fit into one for the night even tho I’m 14, also a couple of times I have had to run to the store and get them by myself and people have given me looks for it :(

yeah lots of times
and every one in store sees them
then they know they are for me
and my sister and the tell people
they are for us call are name in the
store and tell us t o get them
then every one n store knows
they are for us and know
that we pee the bed
i hate it

yes they buy them when i am at the store with them
i think every one in the store thinks they are fore me

You don’t need to worry about being seen with your parents when they buy your diapers. There are so many kids and teenagers out there who wet the bed too and their parents get their stuff in Walmart or so too. The cashiers are so busy anyway that they do not associate the diapers with the person who puts it on the band.

this is something that gives me major anxiety. i have had anxiety problems for a while and lots of things can trigger me but if i have to be with my parents when they are shopping for that i get super upset and worried that people i know will see. if i can i try to bury the item under other things in a shopping basket but its not always possible. ive told my mum lots of times how it makes me feel and lately shes let me stay in the car or stay at home sometimes. that helps but i still worry that she might see people that i know and they would notice. even though i know its unlikely its still really worrying and i totally get why people feel bad about it.

I hate buying goodnites at the store. It is always so embarrassing and gives me anxiety. I try to use the self checkout but sometimes it's not as discrete as i would like it to be. One time the cute girl working the register was giving me a look of "i know they are for you" and started laughing and told me to "have a goodnight"

That was mean of that girl. It’s not your fault that you need diapers. She shouldn’t have said this.

I myself just recently started bedwetting again and having to go buy them is embarrassing I go to stores that are further further from my area however last night I went to guy but some and my exes mom was working and she cashed me out it was one of the most embarrassing things

Maybe ask your mom or dad to buy your stuff online?

Mom usually bought me Goodnites when I wasn't with her but the rare occasion when I was I felt the same way unicorn13. I was always looking around to see who might see what is in our kart. Didn't help that the Goodnites were one of the first rows in Target, so we had to stroll around the entire store with them for everyone to see. Then it is more embarrassing to know the cashier.