Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
Today has barely tough. I have five children my 20-year-old son is currently in the hospital and he has 365 away it's been really difficult because I want to be able to get to him so I can see him although he's very stable he's actually probably getting ready to go home so. I've been contacting him daily on messenger so I can see his face and hear his voice however certain family members have been making certain comments you know and it's really hard because I already feel bad that I can't be there and it's just making it worse to the point that I'm not even able to sleep eat or anything I don't have the money and I don't have transportation my car is broken right now I can literally only drive it about maybe two miles three miles tops at the most I have ever taken it on a daily basis is maybe four miles around the corner but typically I don't go in the morning in my general area to the grocery store right back. And even then sometimes it gives me issues so trying to make a 365 mi trip will be impossible we will probably wouldn't even leave the state if we left the city. I really don't know what to do because my family doesn't realize her I have medical issues I have cataracts of my eyes where I can't drive at night so I have to have somebody to drive with me I also have lower lumbar radicchiopathy in my back so I cannot really sit for long. Sometime and I'm doing physical therapy and it's a lot it's a lot right now and I'm just trying my best to cope.
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Gareth is getting worse, he cant put his pants and trousers on as his back is stiff whhich I told him it would be if he didnt do some yogape some 33 years ago, obviously he took no notice. I now have to help the two of them in the shower or different reasons. When I went too get my haircut, gareth had fallen in the street again, he has bruised his hip. Someone picked him up, he had his...
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Today is the birthday of my favorite aunt. I lost her 2 years after the death of my mom. I miss you aunt FranSince I feel I am a family of one with no real love around, guess I will love myself. I may dye my hair later today. But first, I will shop for a nice fall jacket and maybe look for a good fall/Oct festival in the area
Even if someone else drove you, sounds like it would be a pain filled journey for you in the car and walking around in the hospital. I also have chronic pain and one time had to go rescue my sister 2.5 hours away and just about died from the pain. Then I could not help her as she was demanding because I was in too much pain.
Sometimes people don't want visitors when they are in the hospital. This is how my husband and I feel. We'd rather people called us and kept it short or texted.
You do have a lot of stress to cope with and it is obvious you love your son.
Life is really hard sometimes. Ignore those certain family members who make ugly comments. Don't share information with them so they have nothing to comment on.
Big hugs to you.
wow! ! ! that is quite allot to have on your plate. did the venting here help any? i hope so. i also hope you will keep on venting. it helps with the sorting.
welcome aboard. vent freely. vent often.