Gareth is getting worse, he cant put his pants and trousers on as his back is stiff whhich I told him it would be if he didnt do some yogape some 33  years ago, obviously he took no notice.  I now have to help the two of them in the shower or different reasons.  When I went too get my haircut, gareth had fallen in the street again, he has bruised his hip.  Someone picked him up, he had his stick with him that time.  He is scared he is going to falll which makes it more likely.  He shouts at passing cars, people crossing the road, this week he has an appointment in Newport and we wil have to go by bus and walk part of the way, I just hope he doesnt fall over on route.  He wont take his iron tablets as he suffers from bowel side effects.  But then complains he is tired all the time.  I'd like to put him in a care home, then atleast I would only be looking after one not two.  None of his family would come down to help it takes about 30 mins to get here. and why should they change a 33 year habit. We visited them they never came to us.