Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

I hope you can find a way to give your husband choices to help, that show him you believe in his ability to do those choices.
Your daughter has strengths, and you do, too.
I wish peace, calm, and courage to keep going for you.