Hmm. Rather than an apology, I'd be taking my self care to a different level.

Thank you Mid. I've ended our friendship twice and almost did again 2 years ago. I am taking my self care very seriously. If I defended myself today, she probably would have gotten really nasty. I don't deserve that.

Sorry GreenEyes. Glad you defended yourself. You certainly do not deserve it.. Drives me crazy when someone throws digs. Definitely her issue!
So glad you are taking care of yourself, you really seemed to be!!
Glad you visited your aunt, so that's taken care of.
Enjoy today!

Sometimes people are occasionally jerks because of whatever is going on in their lives at the moment. We all can get in our petty feelings sometimes.

And for some people it’s definitely a pattern of behavior. When it’s a pattern of behavior, I think their digs and what not come from a place of not being ok with their own selves. Whatever they are flinging at others is usually about their own stuff. When I remember that, and it’s not always easy, I feel less reactive because I assume they must be so unhappy. In my mind just because someone serves me poison doesn’t mean I have to ingest it. Still it’s important to set some boundaries with people like this.

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, that at this point in my life I either am radically accepting a person where they are and for who they are (warts and all that comes with that) or I am cutting them loose. Anything in between is just a futile, frustrating exercise in wishing someone is suddenly going to behave differently.

People get funny or jealous when they see your happy. It has happened to me with a few friends. I had to cut them off. I don't want or need any negativity in my life. I just wish they were happy for me. But there not. Your friend sounds like she's like that.

Just take care of you.
Sounds like you had a great day. I'm happy for you.

Happy Hugs and Enjoy Life.xoxo

Thanks everyone! I have been super busy since Saturday. I told her that I didn't like her comment and she said something that I didn't expect. I was wrong in a way. She was upset that I didn't go to lunch with her for my birthday when I was in her area for a dermatologist appointment because I packed "a stupid wrap". I thought she was jealous of my weight. I had told her that I was packing my lunch because she was up in the air with her plans with her boyfriend. But she called me on my way to the appointment saying that she was available for lunch. I couldn't save my wrap for dinner because I took sausage out of the freezer and didn't want to waste anything. Plus, I had changed my whole mindset about the day.