I sometimes feel this huge motivation to get out of my shell, talk to people, and simply be myself no matter what people think of me. However, my voice is something that always seem to stop me. I'm a girl and I sound like a guy! I have a very deep and raspy voice and I hate it soooooooooooo much. Some people have told me that they find my voice unnatractive and annoying because I'm a girl and I sound like a boy. I wish I had a very sweet, soft, and clear voice like most women. I used to have a voice like this when I was little, but then I hit puberty and my voice became very deep and raspy. I've never met any women with deep and raspy voices like mine. This has brought my self-esteem down a lot. Now I think I'll make people a favor by keeping my mouth shut and not speaking, just so they don't have to hear my horrible voice. It also doesn't help having a heavy accent. Most people don't seem to understand what I say, even though I talk loud and clear. I know its stupid to judge people based on what their voice sounds like, but I've seen it happening a lot. How can I stop worrying about how I sound?
Hello all, Received good news on yesterday. Attended class today and know back to feeling overwhelmed about the work that is due. Can someone help me understand the point of good stress and bad stress again? I know somehow there should be a balance. When you all find your balance could you please let me know. smh
Things never work out how we expect :-(I go to a man for holistic therapy who has listened to me and given me treatment for health problems. These health problems have been caused by PTSD, because I've had six crimes. 4 of these were people in a position of authority purposely attacking me (in education and healthcare). This is awful abuse that happens behind closed doors that no one else sees...