Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
I know this looks like I'm trying to get attention, but I swear on my life I am not. I'm just curious if I sound physically attractive. I want an honest answer. I'm a slim guy but I am working out at the gym to get buffer, I am about 5'5 or 5'6, I have pale skin, I am told I have a great smile and my teeth are very straight and white, I have diamond blue eyes, I have acne (not bad acne just mild), I have sort of a slicked back hairstyle and I am told my hair looks healthy and shiny, my style is kinda casual I guess. I am told I look "skater", but really I just wear clothes I think are comfortable like tank tops, slim fit polo shirts, khaki shorts, v necks, nikes or vans, slim fit jeans....ya know...trendy but comfortable clothes. As for personality, I am kind of a mix of introvert and extrovert...just depends on the mood. I can be really quiet and I can be really hyper and outgoing. I like to think I'm more mature than most people in my town as I try to make sure my grammar and spelling is perfect, I don't really like to party and drink, I don't think about sex 24/4 (not that I don't like it), I like to have actual conversations, I care about my education and future. So, yeah. That's me.
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I don't really know how to label this but I having a rough week and I can't say it's one thing.... I have a lot on my plate which is nothing new and I try to cope in many positive ways and do but I still have my moments.My kids more so my daughters talk to me about everything which I know it's cause of comfort and we are close.... however I really struggle with the venting about their dad which...
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I did the dumbest thing today. I charged my earbuds, unplugged the block and put the block in my little bag instead of the earbuds. I wasn't happy about that when I got to the gym. What a dummy!
Based on the description of your personality and tendencies, I'd say you have a very attractive personality, which in my opinion is more desirable than physical appearances. You just so happen to fall into the category of what I'd typically consider to be attractive, and many of your preferences are similar to mine, including your grammar skills (hehe).
But ultimately, it is hard to give a definitive answer regarding physical attractiveness. I have a coworker who told me that in terms of physical appearance, a personal just has to have a kissable face. And if someone sees you and feels you have a kissable face, that might be a person worth talking to. :)
Neediness is not sexy. Insecurity is not sexy. Sex is an expression of power, and power is where it's at in the bedroom. I don't mean rape or anything, I just mean full human assertiveness. No fear.
So how tall you are is irrelevant. Facial acne - irrelevant. Working out? Irrelevant. All of it is completely irrelevant. If you don't have any mojo you won't get any girls. And if you do have mojo, you will get all the girls no matter if you don't clean your teeth or even wipe your butt.
Beware romance fiction: it's gobshyte, nobody cares about that stuff. blue eyes - zip. Curly blonde hair - zip. I've known many a good looking douche I wouldn't touch with a barge pole. If you're good looking, that's a 5 metre handicap to the rest of them, but if you can't run you still won't win the race. So don't focus on your looks, pay them no attention. Are you interesting? Do you read interesting books, listen to interesting music? Do you have a sense of humour? Do you have understanding of other people? What's your smile like? Is it warm and inviting, or like the rictus on a cadaver?
You want your grammar perfect and you don't like to party. These are points against you. The girls will want to know you can interact socially, and they tend to find this out at parties. Caring about spelling is not sexy and could come off as priggish. You're allowed to care about it, just don't ever mention it. Caring about dying baby seals? That's sexy. Caring about global warming? Could be sexy if you don't mind girls with underarm hair. Passionate about sixteenth century french lit? Not so much unless, as I mentioned before, you don't mind girls with underarm hair (French chicks don't shave. They do have other fine qualities however.)
I think you need to get out there, go to a party, get wasted and see how you go. Have fun. Having fun is sexy. Seriously sexy. Laughing your head off is sexy. Doing the crazy ant at a party trashed out of your mind is, intriguingly, very sexy. Even if you wet yourself. It's got that many mojo points.
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That you don't want it tells me a lot about you. That you put me down for it tells me even more.
Have a nice life.