Literally just the other day my mom was telling me she wanted a loaded gun in the house when her boyfriend gets out of rehab because "there's something wrong with that man he's not right in the head" and now "he's better he's changed and he's coming back to live with us" this man accused me and my sister if hacking into his computer, using Minecraft (a game where you build stuff with blocks) because apparently Minecraft is a coding program that hackers use and apparently we were accusing him of stealing someone's identity. He then told my mom if he finds out we did it, we will pay. Then he told her he actually had proof of it (he didn't because neither of us did that not do we know Jack shit about coding) he broke her stuff yelled at her threatened to kill himself if she left and then called her selfish when she said she didn't want to find his dead body. She has literally been saying he hasn't changed at all that he's been being mean and upsetting her every time he calls he gets angry with her. Just the other day he yelled at her for saying that her mom has an appointment for her heart the day he was supposed to get out. Literally my grandma has needed an appointment for a while now she is old and not in the best condition. She was talking about how mad she was at him and now that's all gone down the drain. I think once she told him he can't come here anymore he came up with some kind of manipulative plan to get his way back into her head because now she's not mad at all her whole demeanor has changed. Honestly I do not feel safe with him here he has caused problems with this family and not just the people I live with even my cousin who he literally doesn't know probably met once. So many things I could keep going on about everyone knew from the start he wasn't good and now here we are. I don't even know how to explain to my mom how messed up this is because she already knows. She knows what he's done she knows no one is comfortable with him in this house. He literally talked my mom into taking my sister's phone and giving it to him so he could go through it and look for coding programs. Then he downloaded tracking stuff onto her phone. He also said reslly mean stuff about her but I haven't been told what he said. She told me of he comes back she is leaving I'm assuming to her dad's. If she does that her dog will have to live outside there and I will be all alone. I'm starting to think I need to get medicated and get out of here but I doubt I'll do it I never do. I don't know what's going to happen but honestly with my mom and this situation it's constantly back and forth maybe she'll change her mind 2 or 3 more times. I don't know what to do my anxiety is going to explode when he gets here.